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When I first found out about the affair (in July) I was having so many accidents and breaking things. (For instance I was cooking dinner and a glass dish shattered in the oven while I was basting my chicken...I normally know better than to add liquid to a glass dish.)...Well, the point of this post is it's happening again. I thought I was doing pretty well dealing with things lately. H and I are getting along very well. <p>I was just upset tonight about the whole child support thing and how OW has made a living out of having sex (then children) with varried men. Only h's kids are with her now...others were taken away by the state.<p>While I was cooking dinner I sliced the palm of my hand on a lid of a can that I just opened. It's about two inches long and quite uncomfortable. <p>It seems that whenever I'm under emotional stress lately these "bad luck" things keep happening to me. I know it's because I'm just not focused. Does this ever happen to anyone else?<p>"the well bandaged" why
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Absolutely...it's called distraction and stress. Be careful [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] I got into a minor fender bender and got a speeding ticket. Never had an accident before and only one other ticket.
At least for me, it was my brain or Divine intervention saying SLOW DOWN. Hopefully it will pass.
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You are not alone!!! LOL!!! Let me tell you what "NOT" to do...LOL!!! The day the DNA test results came in, I threw my wedding ring at my H and stormed out of the room, muttering to myself and lo and behold, I fall!!! Not only did I fall, I, (of all things!) fractured my LEFT WEDDING RING FINGER! Just below the tip (under the first joint). Now it will be a long time before I can wear my wedding ring again. I guess the Lord was gently telling me to appreciate my ring and to not carelessly toss it at my H! <p>I will think twice about taking my ring off next time and I will definately be more aware of my surroundings! LOL!!! Chalk that one up to one of life's ironies.<p>I hope that the swelling goes down. As much as I am hurt, angry and feel betrayed, my ring means alot to me. I can't bear not being able to wear it. There is a sentimental story behind H's and my wedding bands. I had a good talk with H today and feel more secure in knowing that our rings do 'still' mean something.<p>So, in the midst of all this rambling, I understand where you are coming from. I am accident prone when I am under extreme stress!<p>Hugs,
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