Not sure why you are so obsessed with me, to the point of going back to old posts and posting them here. I've been away all weekend and check in today to find this? Very odd indeed. If I were you I'd focus on WHY you are so interested in who I am anyway. You think I'm someone else?? Ok! So now what? I for one could care less what you think and I don't know why you are so obsessed with convincing others here that I am a fraud. Isn't it obvious they don't care? I'm sorry but I think you need to find something else to entertain you.
Stop attacking me. And if you really did your research, you'd know my whole story which clearly you do not. Get a hobby or something Pollock.
To the rest of you, hope you are all well. My H and I had a weekend away, just the two of us and it was...nice. There were hard times but it was good to get away.

Bonnie,<p>I just wanted to make a point that Xarelel has made last night. You really need to just let this sleeping dog lie. You have been getting a lot of calm, supportive advice recently, so lets not make this board into a pissing competition, please. We may loose some of those who really need to be on this board due to this bickering. I have been staying away from posting on any negative threads, and I do understand how angry it can make you to have someone "call you out" as Pollock has done to you. <p>I've had it happen to me, although not quite so agressively. I had someone ask me questions about D-day, and my H compared to xOM. They really upset me, and I wanted to just blast out at this person, call him/her out and tell them "what for", but I totally refraned from answering, and nothing else was done. That person never posted to me again, in any way. If you noticed, all those past threads have been closed, and Pollock was told/asked to leave it alone, as pulling up posts from 5-6 months ago don't help in a positive way. <p>Like I said, I know it is hard to ignore this, but if you do, and keep posting with an honest need of advice, or support, then it will die of it's own accord. I have to admit, that when you first came here, there was a lot of turmoil, on both sides, but your posts have, how can I say this, calmed down, and you have received many responses that have been just that, and no anger, other than the recent stuff, has been present in your quaries.<p>Please, don't continue this bickering, and lets just get back to the helpful, supportive site that we were before all this happened.<p>Thank you,<p>Tigger

Listen, I AGREE with you. It's just that I haven't even been here this weekend and I come back to all that. I had to respond. But you are right, better to just let it go. Thanks for the post. Hope you are well.

Thank you for asking how I am. I am doing as well as can be expected. I hope I didn't come accross as if I were bashing your thread. I just have been here for a year, and have seen what "calling people out" can do, and don't want that to happen again. Like I did say, you have "calmed down" a lot, and have started to "repair" any damage with that calmness. Everyone has their own way of dealing with this very hard situation. Some of us are just more agressive than others. I just don't want anyone, new or old, to be chased away by the bickering. This place needs to be "safe" for those spouses, and especially the new comers, who are just now dealing with this enormous pain. Please, I hope I didn't upset you with any of my previous post. I just wanted to try to stop this one before it got out of hand.<p>Tigger<p>PS, sounds like you had a nice weekend, maybe you could share your experience with us as a positive post [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img]<p>[ November 19, 2001: Message edited by: tigger4jdt ]</p>

No offense taken at all. <p>My weekend was nice. Although he and I have always travelled a lot, this was the first time in a long time it was about US together and it was odd. almost seems like we are dating. I try to look at it that way, like a new start, otherwise I just get too upset at how he betrayed me. We just took walks, enjoyed the fall air, had dinner, watched TV in bed. I think we are both on edge, trying to make it feel normal but we need to give it time. Thanks for asking. Glad you are hanging in there.

well well well bonnie there you are, a liar and a cheat how many OC are their out there 2 maybe 3, oh yah I forgot the twins too, shoot how do you keep up with them all? I know you will read this you might not respond but you will want to, I have read all your old posts and you are a liar nothing more nothing less, well maybe not human, all that actually buy into your crap need to have a reality check and you know it and Tigger I realize that you have your own problems but honestly you belong on the gloryb because you are just like them are you not, you had the affair, you had the OC, you are not what you think you are either are you [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]

This is getting so old!<p>Everyone has been asked nicely, pleaded with and been warned. <p>Closing this thread and no explanation is necessary I'm sure.