Have not been on in awhile, see you are having Thanksgiving exactly what day do you guys have that? we have ours in October so its long gone now, I hate Turkey, anyway xzmas is coming and I hate Xmas because twice I have had ddays near Xmas first was Dec 21997 when I found out about OC 2nd was Dec 2000 when I found out Husband was going behind my back and seeing OC and OW, (no sex or anything) she was trying to make him feel guilty, anyway it has been 9 months since any contact whatsoever and it still bugs me, I wish her and her family would just leave the country, how is everyone else doin>?