I live in the caribbean and there seems to be an epidemic of infidelity going on here. Its prevalent every where you turn. I just want to get advice or at least use this site as a resource and stepping stone for myself and hope to make me a better person from it.

Thanks for the welcome.

me - 27
dh - 29
d - 3
s - 2 months
married - 7/99
separated - 2/01
making effort since 10/03