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#806426 11/30/01 02:00 PM
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Pops,<p>I have read some of your mails and yes I am new here. You are to be admired as well as my husband.
I do want to ask if the om knows about the oc that is on the way, if he doesn't then you don't need to adopt, in most states a child born between husband and wife is legally there's unless a paternity issue is brought to the courts. I wish that this is the way we would have gone but we didn't get advice until it was to late.

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choicesmade, i thank you for your kind words although i feel you may have me confused with someone else. i am not familiar with the history of your situation but would like to know. i get the idea that your h has accepted your oc from another post to you. fullhouse and i are looking into the possibilities of either adoption (my first choice) or keeping the child (her first choice) with the om paying cs (my second choice). it also sounds like you and h are receiving cs from om and you are second guessing that decision. my w is due in appox. 3-4 weeks so our time is growing very short and i hate to think that our choice was made out of default of not making a decision. please let me know where to read about your facts as it sounds like they could be very helpful to us.


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