After reading your background story with your OW, do you think it is possible that our little crasher is YOUR OW? She seems to target you more than others. It could be strictly because you have got it goin'on, girl and she cant handle that, but it dawned on me when she really attacked your H's illness. Oh, and if she cares to respond...trust me, I will not dignify her with a response.
I have a tremendous amount of respect for you and your unconditional love for your H. Keep shining.

Thanks for the support, T4S. I have wondered the same thing on occasion and wondered if I underestimated her (our OW). I pegged her as a course and common and stupid dullard, but after her aggressiveness in the court room, I have had to reassess the OW. <p>Perhaps, T4S, but not likely because from what I know, the OW does not possess a computer nor does she have the skills (although recently I heard she is attending computer school for data entry).<p>Wouldn't that be a hoot if it were the infamous OW of NY? Hahaha...I wish I knew for sure...I could have a lot of fun with that information.<p>Catnip =^^=

Who ever this is is never on after 5:00 or on weekends. I have been trying to figure that out I would say she gets on at work. She was going full force when catnip was away also so I dont think its catnips cupcake. This person cant stand anything negative said about ow period she tore in to me a while back cause I said the ow was a sleeze bag.<p>I think we need to just ignore her, him, it. I have had to sit on my hands to keep myself from responding. Maybe her boss will find out what she is up to and we will get some peace.<p> with love flowerseed

Hello,<p>Sorry to interrupt here, but I just read this post. Is an intruder currenly causing trouble? I haven't gotten any e-mails. You know how I rely on you members to keep me abreast of what's happening on here!<p>Or is this conversation regarding the last onslaught of trouble you had here?<p> Xarelel@aol.com Please e-mail me if anything comes up. <p>Thank you all,
Xarelel

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by flowerseed:
<strong>Who ever this is is never on after 5:00 or on weekends. I have been trying to figure that out I would say she gets on at work. She was going full force when catnip was away also so I dont think its catnips cupcake. This person cant stand anything negative said about ow period she tore in to me a while back cause I said the ow was a sleeze bag.<p>I think we need to just ignore her, him, it. I have had to sit on my hands to keep myself from responding. Maybe her boss will find out what she is up to and we will get some peace.<p> with love flowerseed</strong><hr></blockquote><p>You know, you're right, Flowersex. I didn't stop to think about that when I rushed through this earlier. "Whoever" has kind of taken the pot shots at several of us in a non-discrimitory kind of way. Your advice is the best...to just ignore.<p>Hahaha...I am picturing you sitting on your hands to keep from doing the Mother Lion thing protecting the Cubs (members)<p>I think it was just my turn.<p>Love<p>Catnip =^^=<p>[ December 02, 2001: Message edited by: catnip ]</p>

HI GIRLS!!!
I see you are talking about me!!!!! MY MY I am so flattered!!!!<p>No, I am not Catnip's H's OW. I don't go for cowards myself! I like a man, a real man, one who actually fathers his children!<p>As to why I am not here evenings and weekends - HELLO????? That's when most people spend time with their HUSBANDS! But hey, thanks for spending more energy talking about me when I am not even around. I am flattered to say the least!

Catnip =^^=<p>[ December 03, 2001: Message edited by: catnip ]</p>