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I've been a wreck all day wondering what happened. I was at work (and if I wasn't I wouldn't have gone with him...I don't ever want to see OW again...and the reason for cs has NOTHING to do with me)<p>At any rate, the cs was just about cut in half! I'm so relieved!!!!!!!! I feel like such a weight has been lifted. His order was given in July and I've helped him fill out paper work and we have been waiting for the last 12 weeks or so for a court date. He kept getting the run around and getting more in debt.<p>Thanks for listening.<p>Take care, Why<p>I feel like I just got a Christmas present!
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Cut in half? I guess you did get an early Christmas gift! How are you now? Happy for you!<p>Hugs,
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YYYYYAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY!!!!!!! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]
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Lucky Girl! I am envious, but really happy for you, too. Persistance pays.<p>Love<p>Catnip =^^=
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Finally some real law makers w/some sense. Maybe judge looked at this from a realistic point of view instead of from the book.<p>Terrific for you!<p>love
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I hope we are as lucky as you are. Congrats.
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Thank you all for your replies. When H first went in July for cs I hadn't know about the affair or oc. I actually found out when the court papers came.<p>He (stupidly) told the judge what he made on a good week. Forgetting all the time he never makes a full weeks pay (or any at all for that matter!). I took a look at our taxes and he actually made about 1/2 of what he said. They never even asked for proof! I got copies of our taxes and helped him with all of the paper work.<p>When it rains or snows he doesn't work. On holidays he doesn't work. If he's sick he doesn't work. If there is no work he doesn't work....and if he doesn't work ....he doesn't get paid!<p>I was so nervous about what would happen yesterday. He said he didn't even go in front of a judge...just spoke with someone (from cs department) at the court. The hardest part for me about yesterday was that OW was there and I know for the hour they were they that they were talking with each other. <p>I really thought about telling him NO converstion with her, but I thought it better not to make her angry so she wouldn't pull any antics!<p>Again, thank you all for your support.<p>Take care,
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