Hello,<p>I know that my H is doing some things right now.
My H has not gone out with his female friend that introduce OW to him to give me peace of mine. Why could he not do this last year? I did not have peace of mine when I went to my mom’s at Christmas. I wanted to stay home because we were having problems and we just found out that I was pregnant. I know that says a lot about him not going out with her. <p>He has also bought me some jewelry last week for Christmas and has not gone out with his friends instead he is staying home with me and the kids. He does not think I appreciate what he is doing. But I do. It is very hard for me right now my emotions are going crazy. It will be a year ago from Saturday that he starting going out with OW just as a friend. He knew that I would not be happy with him going out with her so he lied about it to me. Why could he not tell me the truth? I wish I had never gone. <p> <p>He does not want me to be depressed any he thinks that by doing these things I should not be so depressed and it is showing that he is working on it. Any advice would be appreciated. <p>I am still breastfeeding and kind of worried about going on anything even if they say it is save to take. We have our first counseling session on December 28. I still have yet to find a babysitter. With a newborn I really don’t trust too many people with him. That can be another problem I might have PDD. Not sure though. I never had it before though. <p>off the topic:
I was wondering if you can say a pray for my family. I have not told anyone in my family because it seems like everyone are having their own problem and I really don't want anyone to know.<p>My grandpa is dying of cancer last night he went into the hospital he has taken a turn for the worse. Don't even know if he will make it to Christmas. My Dad seems very depressed. I never seen him like this. It seems like everyone in my family is depressed right now. I don't know what my grandma is going through right now. It is not going to be a very good holiday season for anyone in my family. <p>My sister is being harrassed at work and my brother told me that he is not doing good. I am the one that usually keeps in contact with everyone but I have not been able to do that lately. <p>Thanks for letting me vent. There is just a lot going on in my life.<p>Dawn

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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> I am still breastfeeding and kind of worried about going on anything even if they say it is save to take. We have our first counseling session on December 28. I still have yet to find a babysitter. With a newborn I really don&#8217;t trust too many people with him. That can be another problem I might have PDD. Not sure though. I never had it before though. <p> <hr></blockquote><p>Dawn, I know for a fact that zoloft is safe to take while breastfeeding an infant. I am still nursing my 8 month old son and plan to try it myself...incidentally, half my breast-feeding support group is on zoloft. I am familiar with it anyway as my bi-polar daughter, (8) is on it also.<p>I bring my son to marriage counseling with me. I have since he was about a month old. He is a nursling and needs me. I don't think the emotions that go through counseling will affect him in the long run, because he gets enough of that at home as it is....but he seems happy as long as he has mama....<p>Please let me know how you are doing and if you are going to think about zoloft. I know for fact that is one you can take.<p>I hope counseling goes great for you... I know for a fact that my H and I are turning a corner for the better....<p>Hugs,
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