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#807394 01/05/02 09:16 PM
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I had the car tonight and decided to start getting my $600.00 worth of shopping($$ h gave ow for her rent, for those of you not up to date, and not to mention he lied to me about it).<p>KOHLS Dept. Store:
2 blouses
1 sweater
2 dress pants
2 pairs shoes
1 purse<p>total: ~$189.00<p>Barnes and Noble:
2 Bibles
1 His Needs Her Needs (always wanted to get that)<p>total: ~$60.00<p>Grand Total (so far): $249.00<p>
I will keep you posted...

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HI THERE! I HOPE YOUR SHOPPING SPREE FELT AS GOOD AS MINE. I AM TRULY DEVASTATED AS D-DAY WAS 11/29/01, BUT FOR A COUPLE OF HOURS...SHOPPING MAKES ME FEEL GOOD! JUST MAKE SURE YOU ARE NOT CHARGING ANYTHING.(HAHA) HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!

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Jordyjordy...
Our d-day anniversary is one day apart. Mine is 11/28/2000. We will have to buy each other flowers and chocolates this year...lol.<p>Julia,
I hope it makes you feel better girl! I wish we had enough money for me to spend the same amount as cs every month. I know I would feel alot better.

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Tryin,<p>Oh yes, it makes me feel very good, but as you can imagine the elation of having something new is only temporary. <p>Jordy,<p>I infact am using the credit card, that of which i will not be paying. Well, i don't feel all that good about when i get my revenge via the mall because i can just see God shaking his head at my behavior. <p>When i first found out about the affair, i went out and bought a platinum diamond ring, i felt this was justified because h told me that he didn't know what he was going to do or who he wanted to be with, but he was basically telling me that he was going to choose her. After i bought the ring, i bought a bike, roller blades, a tennis racket, and other things all totalling about 4 grand. He paid it off within a couple of months and was not happy with me, but i really didn't care because i was certainly not happy with him. <p>ta ta,
Julia

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What is it about "November"? How I hate November.<p>Catnip =^^=

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I don't know about the month of November either...my OC's b-day is in Nov. and I found out about my ex-husband's OW and my impending separation and divorce waaaaaayyy back on November 7, 1996......go figure...I never saw Thanksgiving the same way again. It's actually one of the holidays that I really don't celebrate...but I do have much to be thankful for...I wonder if it's like that last day in FALL kinda thingy when the moon goes into a weird phase or something???<p>Julia,
I wish I could take the money we pay in CS and soon to be 66% of healthcare for OC and put it in an account for my kids of the home...*sigh*...hey, while you are shopping, go buy me and Broken_wings a b-day gift!!! Just kidding!!!! I love you girl and my H told me that he will get that e-mail out today if your H still has that same e-mail account. my H plans to share some "words of wisdom" with yours.<p>Hugs to you....
Twiisty


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