In line with trying to keep some more positive things on this forum. I'd like to try a daily gratitude journal for all of us. So, I'd like to ask each of you to take a couple of minutes each day to post (5) things that you are grateful for. Hopefully, thinking up five things will be easy for you. (I have a feeling it will. ) Those things can be things that have to do with your spouse, your children, your job, anything with your life in general.<P>Let's keep building on this. And when it gets too long, we'll start a new thread. And a new one, and a new one, and a new one!!<P>Come on, guys! Let's get this thing rolling!<P>------------------<BR>Love is meant to heal. Love is meant to renew. Love is meant to oust all fear. Love is meant to harmonize differences. Love is meant to bring us closer to God.

Okay, me first.<P>1) I'm grateful that my children and my H and I are all in excellent health.<P>2) I'm grateful that my H just got a 5% pay increase.<P>3) I'm grateful that I got to see my sister and her two beautiful little girls two times this summer.<P>4) I'm grateful that our first visit with my in-laws since this crisis went exceptionally well.<P>5) I'm grateful that my prodigal brother is home safe, out of harm's way.<P>------------------<BR>Love is meant to heal. Love is meant to renew. Love is meant to oust all fear. Love is meant to harmonize differences. Love is meant to bring us closer to God.

nw<BR>I try to do this as often as possible so I guess this is the place to do it today.<P>1.I'm grateful that i can actually feel my stomach muscles for the first time since surgery.<P>2. I'm grateful that my H helped me make pickles for the first time in 3 years.<P>3.I'm grateful that both my teenagers went somewhre else today instead of bringing their friends here.(Doesn't happen often so I appreciate it)<P>4. I'm grateful that the sun is shining(that doesn't happen often here either)<P>5. I'm grateful that cl came back to the forum today.

1) H's first day back at work after surgery went well.<P>2) Sophie took a good nap this mornig.<P>3) Diet Pepsi.<P>4) It stopped raining.<P>5) H deleted the journal threads about ow from his palm top computer.<P>------------------<BR>Joan

What a great idea - NW!!!<P>Let's see......<P>1) I am grateful that I woke up this morning<P>2) I am grateful for this forum and all the wonderful people on it.<P>3) I am grateful for the unconditional love shown me by my puppy.<P>4) I am grateful for the little bit of rain that we got here today.<P>5) I am grateful that God has kept me sane for at least one more day!!!<P>Hugs,<P>Sheba

Today, I am grateful for:<BR>1) Having a wonderful, healthy grandson to wish a happy birthday to today.<BR>2) Finding the fabric in stock for the outfits I am making for granddaughters.<BR>3) That I got to the service station before I ran out of gas.<BR>4) That my husband arrived safely to the East Coast. (he's gone for 15 days)<BR>5) I am especially grateful that I trust him to go there without me!<P>Success Story (why me)<P>------------------<BR><BR>SUCCESS STORY<P>

1. I am grateful for God who loves me and all of us. Without his strength I don't believe I would be getting through any of this.<P>2. I am grateful that today as well as the whole past week the weather was wonderful and my husband and I got to go mountain biking alot together and had a wonderful holiday weekend.<P>3. I am grateful that my immediate and extended family are all healthy and whole.<P>4. I am grateful that my youngest child is only 14 and still here at home with us.<P>5. I am grateful that after 6 months my husband is still here trying to make this marriage work. <P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<BR>

My turn-<P>I am grateful that God is love.<P>I am grateful for my Mircale daughter.<P>I am grateful for my parent and their unconditional love for me.<P>I am grateful that I got the day off work.<P>I am grateful that I can wear the clothes in my closet again (That darn infidelity diet-lost 35 lbs on it.)<P>I could go on and on. This is a great idea.<P>Cheryl

Lets see<P>1) I'm grateful God has given me a new beginning with my hubby<BR>2) I'm grateful for my 3 beautiful children<BR>3) I'm grateful for all the friends i have, where ever they are<BR>4) I'm grateful for my Tupperware business<BR>5) I'm grateful for a new beginning of the week<BR><P>------------------<BR>Alliy

This won't be easy for me but I will try...<P>1. I am grateful for my best friend Todd, whom without I would be drunk and surrounded by a thousand pizza boxes<P>2. I am grateful for my job, Which I still have<P>3. I am grateful for the past 9 years.... More good than bad with my W.<P>4. I am grateful that I continue to wake up in the morning. Way too early by the way but working on it.<P>5. I am grateful for the little things..... The Pacific Ocean, The Sierra/Nevada Mountains, The way my lawn smells right after mowing it. You know... The little things.<P>And of course who could forget about their parents..... God love em'<P>------------------<BR>Rutger......One day at a time.<P><BR>

I'm grateful for my three beautiful kids<BR>I'm grateful for my new job wich I love<BR>I'm grateful for my house and my beautiful garden<BR>I'm grateful that I have loving, supportive parents<BR>I'm grateful for all of my good friends

OK, my turn now.<P>1. I'm grateful for my wonderful daughter.<P>2. I'm grateful for friends who've been there when I've needed them.<P>3. I'm grateful for the support of my in-laws - they don't HAVE to.<P>4. I'm grateful the bills got paid for last month.<P>5. I'm grateful for a wonderful day with my daughter today - we talked and laughed and had a great time.<P>This is good - once you get started, lots come into your brain!<P>Lori

Great idea!<P>1. I'm grateful for having two happy, healthy children.<P>2. I'm grateful for a relaxing holiday today.<P>3. I'm grateful for my friends and family who have supported me through my crises over the last few years.<P>4. I'm grateful for God's financial provision that allows me to not work.<P>5. I'm grateful for the MB forum and all that I have learned here.<P><P>------------------<BR>

Wonderful idea. Just what I needed at the end of a very hectic day. Thanks for reminding me to focus on the positives of life. <P>1. I am grateful for my wonderful husband and our renewed marriage.<P>2. I am grateful for my beautiful son.<P>3. I am grateful for my husband's new job, which raised his income 45%.<P>4. I am grateful that I am allowed to stay home and raise my son, and to be able to go to college.<P>5. I am grateful that we were able to buy a new car last week, and that it's in our name and my in-laws no longer own us (they bought our previous 2 cars). <P>------------------<BR>The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.<BR>Helen Keller<BR>

My turn :<P>1. I am grateful that my husband is getting more and more affectionate these days.<P>2. I am grateful that my husband has dliberately chosen a land for a future home FAR from his family's houses.<P>3. I am grateful that we had renovated my old room and had Air Con installed now so we'll have a more comfortable room to sleep.<P>4. And we still have some savings after doing no. 3<P>5. I am grateful that I had gotten rid of someone that been trying to fish some information about my pain. I guess he was sent by H's ex-OW.<P>Thanks new woman, this is a good idea to remain us things that we have achieved instead of our failures!!!!<P>Saskia

Great idea nw.<BR>today I'm grateful...<BR>1 -that my H helped a lot around the house and with cooking so I could get everything ready to start work tomorrow<BR>2 - that I finished the stupid translation I offered to make before I realized it had so many technical terms, and that it actually sounded o.k. when I read it<BR>3 - that our family is healthy and happy<BR>4 - that I wasn't to late in puting medication in the tank and that my fish didn't die. Must confess I wasn't paying too much attention so when I noticed it seemed it was going to be too late and I was feeling so guilty!... <BR>5 - for all my friends here in this forum. Coming here helped me when I was at my lowest and keeps giving me new perspectives now that I'm on the way to be at my highest <BR>Kat

Ok, I'll give this a try too...<BR>I'm grateful....<P>That I have my health<P>That I have a home to live in<P>That my family is all well (parents, sister, grandparents, etc...)<P>That I have friends who support me<P>That God loves me<P>Butterfly<BR><P>------------------<BR>My favorite quote....<BR>"Hello, this is God. I will be handeling your problems today. I will not need your help, so sit back and have a good day."<BR>

1) I'm grateful that my family is alive and healthy.<P>2) I'm grateful that God gave me (and still gives me) the strength to endure & cope with the pain that I experienced this year from H's infidelity.<P>3) I'm grateful that my marriage is in recovery and so far, things are going well.<P>4) I'm grateful for the rain that we got and that we will still be getting this week.<P>5) I'm grateful for all our family & friends.

Ok People!!!!<P>It's a new day and time for our daily gratitudes!!!!<P>I am grateful :<P>1) That, again, I woke up this morning.<P>2) that I have a roof over my head and food in my stomach.<P>3) for my wonderful and supportive family<P>4) That my back is better enough to allow me to go to work today<P>5) That God is walking this path with me<P>

I am so very grateful for:<P>1. A Savior that died to I would have eternal life.<P>2. A husband that loves me no matter what I've done.<P>3. Two beautiful healthy daughters<P>4. A great job<P>5. Cars that run

1 - Lord Jesus, I thank You for You!<BR>2 - Jesus, I thank You for 20 years with my Wife.<BR>3 - I thank You for 2 beautiful daughters<BR>4 - I thak You for helping me deal with this terrible mess I am suffering through.<BR>5 - I thank You for the trees, clouds, mountains, and rivers which are nothing short of a miracle.

1) I'm grateful for the beautiful day we are having today<P>2) I'm grateful for my day off today<P>3) I'm grateful that my husband is wanting to work on our marriage<P>4) I'm grateful for my sweet pets who give me such unconditional love<P>5) I'm most grateful for my three beautiful children who are my whole reason for living

Ok, I searched and searched for this.... A friend of mine sent it to me last week. <P>Lord, Thank You.....<P>Lord, thank you for this sink of dirty dishes; we have<BR>plenty of food to eat.<P>Thank you for this pile of dirty, stinky laundry; we<BR>have plenty of nice clothes to wear.<P>And I would like to thank you, Lord, for those unmade<BR>beds; they were so warm and comfortable last night. I<BR>know that many have no bed.<P>My thanks to you, Lord, for this bathroom, complete<BR>with all the splattered mess, soggy, grimy towels and<BR>dirty lavatory; they are so convenient.<P>Thank you for this finger-smudged refrigerator that<BR>needs defrosting so badly; it has served us faithfully<BR>for many years. It is full of cold drinks and enough<BR>leftovers for two or three meals.<P>Thank you, Lord, for this oven that absolutely must be<BR>cleaned today; it has baked so many things over the<BR>years.<P>The whole family is grateful for that tall grass that<BR>needs mowing, the lawn that needs raking; we all enjoy<BR>the yard.<P>Thank you, Lord, even for that slamming screen door.<BR>My kids are healthy and able to run and play.<P>Lord, the presence of all these chores awaiting me<BR>says You have richly blessed my family. I shall do<BR>them cheerfully and I shall do them gratefully.<P>Even though I clutch my blanket and growl when the<BR>alarm rings, Thank you, Lord, that I can hear. There<BR>are many who are deaf.<P>Even though I keep my eyes closed against the morning<BR>light as long as possible, Thank you, Lord, that I can<BR>see. Many are blind.<P>Even though I huddle in my bed and put off rising,<BR>Thank you, Lord, that have the strength to rise. There<BR>are many who are bedridden.<P>Even though the first hour of my day is hectic, when<BR>socks are lost, toast is burned and tempers are short,<BR>my children are so loud, Thank you, Lord, for my<BR>family. There are many who are lonely.<P>Even though our breakfast table never looks like the<BR>pictures in magazines and the menu is at times not<BR>balanced, Thank you, Lord, for the food we have.<BR>There are many who are hungry.<P>Even though the routine of my job is often monotonous,<BR>Thank you, Lord, for the opportunity to work. There<BR>are many who have no job.<P>Even though I grumble and bemoan my fate from day to<BR>day and wish my circumstances were not so modest,<BR>Thank you, Lord, for life. <P>B<P>------------------<BR>My favorite quote....<BR>"Hello, this is God. I will be handeling your problems today. I will not need your help, so sit back and have a good day."<BR>

Wow!<P>What a God-inspired idea. What a refreshing breathe of 'fresh air' on this board and others on MB which are filled with so much despair and hopelessness (selfishness and in-gratitude).<P>God give us ALL an 'attitude of gratitude'.<P>I wrote the Lord a 5 page letter on July 4th, thanking Him for all He has done for and given to me.<P>So....here goes!<P>I'm grateful for....<P>(1) My Lord/Savior/Friend, Jesus Christ<BR>(2) The Holy Spirit's involvement in every area of my life<BR>(3) 4 beautiful children and 2 grand-children, all who are 'born-again' Christians<BR>(4) My health and unbelievable level of propserity on my job<BR>(5) My precious wife of 33 years, even though we have been separated for over 3 years<P>Like other's have said, I could go on & on!<P>[censored] from Texas<P>

Just when I needed a reminder to be thankful......<P>1. God is with me at all times<BR>2. My two beautiful and healthy children<BR>3. Every minute I get to spend with my aging parents<BR>4. Every moment of life, which is short<BR>5. Another chance to learn to be me!<P>Thanks for this reminder that in even the darkest moments, if you can find thing for which to be grateful, you will survive.

I'm glad this is catching on. Please, let's keep this going so that it'll still be going strong when the others who don't yet feel comfortable adding will be ready. <P>Today, I am grateful for:<P>1) My kids had a GREAT first day at school.<P>2) My husband and I finished his resume and it looks awesome!! <P>3) We have an appointment with a realtor on Thursday to start the ball rolling on selling and buying a new house!<P>4) My H is feeling better today. (He felt like he was coming down with something yesterday.<P>5) I have a husband who loves me completely and accepts all my imperfections and forgives my mistakes.<P>------------------<BR>Love is meant to heal. Love is meant to renew. Love is meant to oust all fear. Love is meant to harmonize differences. Love is meant to bring us closer to God.

I'm grateful...<BR>-My daughter came home SO excited about <BR> her first day at her new school.<BR>-H fixed the lock on the front door Sat so<BR> the fool who was banging on it at 1:00 am <BR> COULDN't get in.<BR>-I don't have to cook dinner tonight - d and<BR> I are "cheating" instead.<BR>-God blessed me with patience and love and <BR> kept anger out of my heart for one more day.<BR>-My mom is trying very hard to honor my <BR> rather stern "request" to stop trying to <BR> control me and make me something I'm not. <BR> It gives us hope for a good relationship <BR> one day.<P>I LOVE this post! Starts my evening at home off with a new spirit.<P>Lori

Ok, my earlier post was just to share... here is what I am grateful for today......<P>I have a friend who reminds me I am not "by myself" but instead I am "With Myself".<P>I am learning how to be happy again..... with myself.<P>That I have a roof over my head.... even if it leaks a little (found that this weekend)<P>That even though I have a little cold, I am basically in good health.<P>That God has given me the opportunity to develope the strength to deal with whatever comes my way.<P>B<P>------------------<BR>My favorite quote....<BR>"Hello, this is God. I will be handeling your problems today. I will not need your help, so sit back and have a good day."<BR>

Let me see. Hmmmm What am I grateful for today?<P>I am grateful that my son slept late. <P>I am grateful that my son starts preschool tomorrow. 3 hours a day, 3 times a week of peace. Ahhh<P>I am grateful for my wonderful animals who provide unconditional love.<P>I am grateful that my H made it through another day, safely, on the crazy streets of this city. He's a field rep.<P>I am grateful for a nice relaxing and cloudy/rainy day, after a long stressful weekend.<P>------------------<BR>The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.<BR>Helen Keller<BR>

-I am grateful that I got to take a 3 mile walk with a friend today<P>-I am grateful that all three of my children are adjusting to our new home and their new schools<P>-I am grateful that my husband moved with me 500 miles away from OM to start anew<P>-I am grateful that my mother in law started at a daycare today, relieving lots of my stress at home<P>-I am grateful that I found this site, full of inspiring and helpful people to guide me through this mess

I really need this today:<P>I am grateful for good friends who love me despite my many faults.<P>I am grateful for a husband who through it all stands by me and keeps on trying.<P>I am grateful for my children, even though all three are teenagers <P>I am grateful that I saw how wrong the road I had chosen was for my family, and did the right thing by turning back.<P>I am grateful for this place. My solitude, my getaway, my support when the world gets ugly.

My life is blessed in many ways...here's a few for today.<P>1) I am grateful for my beautiful daughters.<BR>2) I am grateful that I have my career and enough financial resources so that my marital crisis is not also a financial crisis. We will get by.<BR>3) I am grateful for the support of family and friends.<BR>4) I am grateful for the new friends that I have made as a result of this crisis.<BR>5) I am grateful for my H. Although I have much to be unhappy about, he is a good father, he is responsible financially, and he tries to be considerate of my feelings. Many wayward spouses are much worse.

I am grateful for:<P>1. My ever faithful (peskily so) Labrador Retreiver<BR>2. An ex-husband that hasn't said "I told you so" in light of my current marital troubles<BR>3. A job that pays me very well<BR>4. A husband who is at home and trying<BR>5. A good car that kept me relatively safe when I totalled it in July<P>------------------<BR>RobinAnn<P>*********<P>Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape!

I am grateful for:<P>1. My marriage which seems to be mending well.<BR>2. My H who seems to be learning how to be supportive and reassuring when I have a bad day.<BR>3. My 3 healthy children.<BR>4. My first grandchild (due in Feb.)<BR>5. My friends<BR>

I am grateful for:<P>1) God helping me get through another day, despite wanting to sleep in some.<P>2) My loving husband, who even though we've missed each other some talking lately, does his best to stay on the cheerful side for me.<P>3) The great business opportunities i'm involved with.<P>4) That tomorrow i'll be given a new day to start anew with whatever i didn't get finished today<P>5) For finding this site of people who have gone through some of the similar situations like me and those who give us hope it will get better.<P>Butterfly that was a very inspiring poem of thankyou's touched my heart .. : )<P>------------------<BR>Alliy

What a fantastic idea! Thanks NW!<P>I'm grateful that my H has been so willing to work on our marriage with me.<P>I'm grateful that our marriage is better than ever before.<P>I'm grateful that God blessed us with this new chance.<P>I'm grateful that our son made the football team.<P>I'm grateful that my H and I are going on a second honeymoon during the holidays.

1. I am grateful for my family and friends.<P>2. I am grateful for each new day.<P>3. I am grateful for the power of forgiveness.<P>4. I am grateful for my loving husband.<P>5. I am grateful for my adorable dog (he's my baby).<BR>

1. I am grateful that my H gave me a second chance at our marriage<P>2. I'm grateful that my daughter likes to go to school<P>3. I'm grateful that my dad is starting to come around to talking to my H somewhat (it isn't great yet but it's getting better little by little)<P>4. I'm greatful my H and I love each other<P>5. I'm grateful for life in general

Today I am grateful for.....<P>Making it to work safely again<BR>A car that runs (knock on wood) <BR>My sister (and the rest of my family too!)<BR>Feeling a little bit better <BR>A beautiful day<P>B<P>PS~ Alliy, I'm glad you liked the poem.<BR>------------------<BR>My favorite quote....<BR>"Hello, this is God. I will be handeling your problems today. I will not need your help, so sit back and have a good day."<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Butterfly (edited September 08, 1999).]

I am thankful to have a good job, great co-workers, a supportive family, two beautiful children, a nice place to live and God's unending love.

I'm grateful:<P>- for my two cats and dog!<P>- for my new friends in my new town!<P>- for my new job that allows me to be creative!<P>- to my husband stuck by me even when I treated him like crap!<P>- for my sister and friends back home!<P>- that I've learned a lot about myself in the past couple of months!<P>- that someone somewhere is looking out for me!

NW, this thread has POWER! Came looking for it today because I was down. Let's see, I'm grateful...<P>My mom took the girls for more school supplies - I need the "quiet time".<P>My MIL called today - no news, just to say Hi.<P>No BAD news!<P>Daughter's 2nd day of school was good, too! And she's sticking to her "new restrictions" another day w/out complaining. (From a teenager, I guess that in itself is a miracle!)<P>The sun is shining and the rain has stopped - finally!!!!

I'm late with my gratitudes today - but I made it!!!<P>I am grateful -<P>1) That I met a nice mechanic at the gas station (a real gas station where they have the guys who pump for you!!) and he fixed my tires (leaking) and made sure the air was good with a hand pressure gauge cuz nobody has the gauges on their air hoses anymore and I can't tell!). He filled the oil, washed ALL SIX windows and replaced a fuse. He did all this for free!!! He wouldn't even take a tip!! God Bless Him and His Family, please!!<P>2) We had a good amount of rain today.<P>3) The kids are all in school<P>4) Shoni and her H are going to be OK.<P>5) I do not have a cell phone!<P>

Good thread...<P>Grateful for:<P>my two gorgeous, loving daughters..<P>that H and I are making strides in communication..<P>great in-laws, and parents..<P>H was given a raise...<P>The weather is cooling down..<BR>

Things I am grateful for today:<P>That my son's first day of school went well.<P>That my extremely shy son said to me, "Mom, I made some new friends today."<P>That my body (arthritis) allowed for me to clean my house today.<P>That my dog didn't piddle on my freshly cleaned carpet. <P>That my H is at the store with my son now, buying me a present. "It's a surprise," as my son so eloquently put it. Last night it was a "picnic bouquet" of flowers. Things that make you smile. Ahhh <P>------------------<BR>The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.<BR>Helen Keller<BR>

I'm grateful for:<P>1) that I got up on time for work today<P>2) that kids wanted pizza tonight so I didn't have to cook<P>3) no bills came in the mail today<P>4) my best friend<P>5) my 3 kids who I thank God for everyday

Today, I am grateful for.....<P>1) My hearing impaired son seems to have some good, understanding teachers this year.<P>2) We've found a prospective new home for a sweet, previously abused rescued dog we've been fostering.<P>3) That my H took me out to my favorite sports bar for "wing night" tonight.<P>4) Someone was surprised to find out I have a child in high school! (Always love it when that happens! )<P>5) That I can go to bed tonight with no hatred in my heart and anticipate waking up to another bright day tomorrow.<P>Bless you all!<P>------------------<BR>Love is meant to heal. Love is meant to renew. Love is meant to oust all fear. Love is meant to harmonize differences. Love is meant to bring us closer to God.

new woman,<P>I, too, am fostering a dog. Only problem is, I can't imagine giving him up. Unfortunately, I have no choice. I already have 2 dogs. One of which is a high strung puppy. Needless to say, I have my hands full. It's just that I have become so attached to this wonderful dog, I can't imagine anyone giving it a good enough home. Whenever we go to Petsmart on Sunday's to find him a home, I get angry whenever anyone goes over to his cage. It's such a horrible feeling. I'm the kind of person who has never gotten rid of an animal. As a matter of fact, I just lost my 16 year old cat, who I had since the second he was born. So, having to give this dog up frightens me. Oh well, at least we cared enough to take him in. Apparently, someone didn't want him, so they dumped him near my home. We posted signs, and gave our name to the local shelters, all to no avail. I can't imagine it either, since he's truly a terrific dog. And only a year old too. The humane society was full, and they said that they'd have to put him down after 10 days if he wasn't claimed. We couldn't do that. My H was the one to take him, and when he drove up with the dog in the car, I about killed him. I just couldn't sign that death warrant though. He's got a wonderful home here, and is more spoiled than you could imagine. He even shares me pillow. So, how do you feel about giving the dog up? How long have you had it? It's been since June 1 for me. Well, take care. Sorry to change the subject.<P>------------------<BR>The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart.<BR>Helen Keller<BR>

I' afraid some days I won't be able to make it ( no time to use the computer ), but I'm here now, and today I'm gratefull ...<P>* That I made it trough the day - I can swear that those kids get wilder each year that passes. A classroom full of standup comedians this year ! <P>* that hubby arranged for babysitter and picked me up at school right on time for us to watch the soccer game.<P>* that Im not teaching night classes anymore, so I can work with my kids when they come from school, and help them when they need.<P>* that even though my in-laws keep trying to get in between us again my H is not letting it happen.<P>* That we're healthy and happy<P>* that we might have enough savings by the end of the year to get the new car that we so desperatly need.<P>And do much more!!!!!!!<BR>

I'm grateful for being able to buy a new car this week.<P>I'm grateful for having the greatest in-laws in the world.<P>I'm grateful my H is laying in bed waiting for me.<P>I'm grateful that my mammogram came out okay.<P>I'm grateful that I had to reschedule my dentist appointment!

-I'm grateful that my boss allowed me to change my hours so that I can get off before my 3 kids get out of elementary school I'm so glad I don't have to put them in after-school care!<P>-I'm grateful that I have wonderful neighbors on both sides. How often does that happen?<P>-I'm grateful that my son remembered to bring home everything he needed to do his homework yesterday! (and his lunchbox too! great day for him)<P>-I'm grateful that my 2 younger brothers, in college, still think of me every day and send me cute e-mails and jokes and keep me informed of their lives.<P>-I'm grateful that my husband has such a good sense of humor and is never grouchy<P> have a great day all!

I am grateful for my son.<BR>I am grateful for regaining my health.<BR>I am grateful that through all this pain and suffering, I am still standing on my feet.<BR>I am grateful for this site and all the love and support it gives me.<BR>I am grateful for the blue sky.

Good Idea!<BR>1. Grateful for the beautiful fall colors here that let me know another season has passed and my H and I are still together!<BR>2. Grateful for God's special way of guiding and looking over me and my family and how much we all love each other, even some of the IL's!<BR>3. Grateful my children went back to school and are enjoying it! <BR>4. Grateful that I am healthier this year than any other!<BR>5. Grateful that I can put things in HIS hands and finally understand that HE will take care of them as HE sees fit!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!<BR>

I am grateful that Jesus died on the cross for our sins.<BR>I am grateful for God giving me my W.<BR>I am grateful for God giving us our sons.<BR>I am grateful for God giving me my siblings (all 4 of them.)<BR>I am grateful for God leading to this website to have such loving people help me heal my wounds and cope with what has happened.<P>------------------<BR>God Bless,<BR>Rob<P><BR>

Today I'm grateful for:<P>1. the fact that my daughter loves first grade and wants to go to school<P>2. bottle water (we're on a boil order where we're at and will get sick if we don't drink bottled water or boil the water)<P>3. that I didn't forget to do my homework for H and I's counseling session tonight<P>4.a loving H<P>5. a place to live

Today I am grateful for:<P>1) the completeness my SO has brought to my life.<P>2) my wonderful 2 boys and 2 stepsons-to- be<P>3) my family (immediate and extended)<P>4) peace of mind, body and soul<P>5) my spiritual growth<BR>

Okay, I'll chime in <P>1. Grateful for my salvation and God's mercy when I don't deserve it, I've had hostility in my heart toward steparenting<P>2. Grateful that my 19 year old SD has decided to get serious about her life and making a move to MN to live with H and I, and grateful that God seems to think I can handle it when I think sometimes I can't<P>3. Grateful my husband had 35 minutes with his mother yesterday alone, where he could express his feelings of his heart honestly without interruption - and she cried, and he is one step closer to restoring his family after being named with only one other nephew on his aunt and uncle's will<P>4. Grateful that my husband made an appointment with me to discuss the steparenting issues last night, and we made a hint of progress<P>5. That h is thinking about requiring a drug test for 16 year old SD who lives with us, and also thinking about what he will do if it is positive<P>

OK - done with work for today and now I can start my MB time with my gratitudes. This is very uplifting for me!!!<P>I am grateful:<P>1) That New Woman started this Thread<P>2) That I am able to laugh again<P>3) When my baby (yes, the dog!!) greets me with such love when I get home<P>4) That God has given me all the strength I have needed to get this far with myself<P>5) For chocolate chip ice cream with sprinkles.<P>

I'm grateful for:<P>My husband who called me up today and told me that he loves me and again feels like he is in love with me.<P>The beautiful day that we were blessed with here<P>my paitents at work, they really make my day<P>My health<P>My childrens health<P>My three great kids<P>

Crazy or what, That is a wonderful to be thankful for.<P>God Bless You!

I am so grateful for my friend and neighbor. Someone I could call this evening and say "I can't be alone -- can I bring the kids and come over?" and she said "Of course!" Even though she's getting over the flu. Then later this evening when I was home again putting the kids to bed she called just to make sure I was okay.<P>God bless her!

crazy or what, that is a great list! I'm sooooo happy for you! Sincerely. <P>Sheba, you're most welcome! I'm glad it's catching on and hope everyone continues to be reminded of all the blessings God provides.<P>Animac, that is a great friend you have! Bless her and bless you. <P>Everyone, I'm so happy this makes you all fee better!<P>My list for today:<P>1) Grateful that my oldest son turns 15 today and he has never run away from home, has never told me he hates me, is still a virgin, worries more about getting Sega Dreamcast than getting a girlfriend, will still go places with us without being too embarrassed, and will watch WWF wrestling and MTV with his parents. GREAT KID!<P>2) That my ability to forgive those who trespass against me is improving day by day. (My H has been a great mentor in this area)<P>3) That my responsibilities at work have increased. Whoo Hoo!! (Gotta stay positive! )<P>4) That my yearly salary will be increased at least $10,000 as a result of those responsibilities!! <P>5) At home, with my husband and children is the only place I want to be these days.<P>Ahhh, that felt good! <P>------------------<BR>Love is meant to heal. Love is meant to renew. Love is meant to oust all fear. Love is meant to harmonize differences. Love is meant to bring us closer to God.

I am thankful this morning the sun is shining, and the dew on my car sparkled. <P>I had a good hair day! (Dazed - you'll like that one....)<P>And on the way to taking my 6 year old son to school, he asked - Mom, Who made the world? And he said, Did God make it after he died? And I got to tell him about God, how he was never born and will never die, he is forever and that is something that humans have a hard time understanding because we only know what we see, feel and know. Then I got to talk to him about my relatives in heaven, and how when I go to heaven it will be fun. <P>I am thankful for the song I listened to on the way to my son's school - about a confession to the Lord about my unapproachability, my stubborness, my lack of faithfulness with the talents he's given me, and my unforgiveness in my heart. It is helping me keep the focus back on me, instead of looking at the SD's and H shortcomings. I'm not perfect either, and I am thankful that God is reminding me of that.<P>

I'm grateful for:<P>1. school buses so I don't have to take H to work at crack of dawn so I can have car to take daughter to school<P>2. daycares who will take part time kids without much notice<P>3. my wonderful daughter<P>4. hugs and kisses from my H<P>5. my health, I don't have girardia thank goodness<BR>

Great Idea !!<BR>I am thankful for two beautiful Kids.<BR>I am thankful for a husb who loves me so much<BR>I am thankful to have found MB<BR>I am thankful to have God back in my life<BR>We are working on making our marriage a million times better.

1. that God has given me what He has and not what i deserve<BR>2. that my wife and the OW got together and set me up, which goes with # 3<BR>3. the affair finally was ended<BR>4. that God is the ultimate healing source<BR>5. i have faith God will heal my marriage

New Woman -<P>I hope this posts OK cuz I can't see the new posts on this thread.<P>I have webtv and it doesn't have much memory so I can't see all posts on a long thread.<P>Could you make a new Thread - so we can have more room?<P>Thanks and Hugs,<P>Sheba<P>PS - One of today's gratitides would be - Grateful for NW's new thread!!! LOL!!!!<P>

I'm grateful ..<P>that even when I lovebust, my H forgives.<P>that my H never experienced withdrawal.<P>that God grants people the power to change.<P>that I don't have as many nightmares anymore.<P>that I found $8 in the dryer today!

Oh, oh, let's not lose steam on this people. Is everyone using webtv? Ok, Sheba, I'll start a new thread. <P>------------------<BR>Love is meant to heal. Love is meant to renew. Love is meant to oust all fear. Love is meant to harmonize differences. Love is meant to bring us closer to God.