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Hello all,<p> I feel a little selfish. I rarely post but do lurk a lot. I don't post to many people because I feel so confused about my own scenario sometimes I feel like who am I to ever give advice? But pleas know my thoughts are always with all of you. My husband and I are still separated but "dating". Today we had a good time. We went to a Knicks game and out to dinner. During dinner I asked him how he thought things were going with us. He replied positively but the thing that he felt uncomfortable with is the idea of us being physical. Why is that? I don't understand how a guy with a high sex drive and we had a pretty good sex life could feel that way. Is it guilt? commitment phobia? The fact that his quick fling resulted in a pregnancy? Control fears or all of those? Does anyone have any suggestions? We have come very far and we are making snails pace positive steps. As long as we are going in the right direction I will try to have patiience but I don't understand this part of it. Kris
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