H got a voicemail from OW today. She said she couldn’t get him to answer so she would leave a voicemail. She has the home # because the GAL insisted… Why didn’t she call him there? UGH. <p>She had taken Lil Bit to the Pediatrician for her 6-month visit. H has been asking for weeks when the appointment was going to be so that he could be there. All she would tell him was that she couldn’t take her until her insurance kicked in.<p>Now, today, she calls and says that she had her appointment today! She could have told H yesterday! She didn’t even bother to tell him when he asked yesterday!<p>We have faxed the pediatrician asking for the record from the visit. And we have also faxed a copy to our lawyer.<p>Amazing to me, how this woman is able to get Dr appointments at the drop of a hat. She had changed an ultrasound 4 times in a week when she was pregnant….This woman is a real piece of work… <p>Thanks for listening... I needed to get this out of my system…
Its driving me nuts… but as my dad says, that’s not a long drive… just a short putt… LOL<p>God bless…

Stacie, The title of this post says it all "Why can't she just cooperate?" I always said that about our xow also. Because that is not a trait that some of these xow have. The changing of appointments at the drop of a hat and other similiar feats of magic by the xow are mostly just excuses and lies. Unfortunely she sounds to me like a liar and she makes a situation fit her needs for that particular moment. I do think that this will come out in the long run, as you have posted already she has been caught in some of her lies. <p> Our xow used to do similar things with appointments that would appear and disappear at the drop of a hat also, mostly when we wanted visitation time there was always something the oc already had to do.<p>Stay strong and I am sure the truth will all come out. Your xow has already been caught in a few lies. If she is dumb enough, which she seems to be, to continue on this path of changing stories to fit her mood and situation, it will get her in the end. Wishing you the best, Peace, Gabi

Hi All!<p>Why do OW do things such as these..It's fairly simple...Attention..Attention..Attention..<p>In my opinion..Most of the things they do are designed to lead H's thoughts to them..To keep them (H) guessing..is supposably to keep them thinking of them. In my case it's worked for years, with my H. I guess you could say fuel to feed the addiction, If you don't stoke the fire, ..it burns out! All most OW have is games..When I let these games get to me..I have to tell myself.<p>I don't have to play games to get him to come home to me and the kids every night.
I don't have to play games to wake up with him next to me each morning.
I don't have to play games to get him to say he loves me and the children.
I don't have to play games, what we have is real. And that is simply something OW will never have, no matter how many games she plays to get it.