After being separated for THREE long years, it is still hard to believe that H is never coming back to me and his three children. I guess that deep down I always held out hope that he'd wake up and realize what he'd done, beg forgiveness and ask to come back to us, his family. Well, it seems as though that dream is gone forever...<p>I have access to his GF's cellphone bill and on the bill was a phone number for the genetic testing/fetal testing center. I called the place, pretended I was her and was told that, yes, she'd been there for an ultrasound both yesterday and on November 9th. <p>What does this mean to you all? If she is pregnant, this just explains so much more to me: My H's severe lack of communication w/kids since October of 2001, his threats to "never see the kids again," his allusions to suicide, etc.<p>I suppose my final question is: Would someone go to a genetic counseling/fetal center if she weren't pregnant? Thank you for your advice.

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by MovingOn:
<strong>After being separated for THREE long years, it is still hard to believe that H is never coming back to me and his three children. I guess that deep down I always held out hope that he'd wake up and realize what he'd done, beg forgiveness and ask to come back to us, his family. Well, it seems as though that dream is gone forever...<p>I have access to his GF's cellphone bill and on the bill was a phone number for the genetic testing/fetal testing center. I called the place, pretended I was her and was told that, yes, she'd been there for an ultrasound both yesterday and on November 9th.<p>I suppose my final question is: Would someone go to a genetic counseling/fetal center if she weren't pregnant? Thank you for your advice.</strong><hr></blockquote><p>Dear Moving On<p>I hate hearing how you have been drifting in limbo for three years waiting for your husband to realize what he has thrown away. I am so very sorry things are looking so bleak.<p>You have answered your own questions in your post by pointing out the obvious. Now it is your responsiblity to acknowledge the hard realities and very real possibilities and truly "move on".<p>I hope your moniker is an indication of your intent to Move On.<p>I am so sorry, MO.<p>Catnip =^^=