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Hello to Everyone, This is going quick. Well, Today marks the last day that my H had sex with OW.<p>Boy I have a roller coaster of emotions. My H told me that not to long before he had sex with OW, OW friend asked him and he said no.<p>Why did then have sex with OW? He gives different answers. I just keep thinking what got him to the point that he finally had sex with OW?<p>My H can't remember what happened a year ago just that he had sex with OW because he wrote it down in his organizer.<p>The only thing I know he was upset and angry that I was pregnant because he did not want another kid. Then why go have unprotected sex with someone else?<p>Sometimes I look at my son and remember what happen OC is was due only two months after me.<p>When my son was born my H cried tears of joy.<p>I still do not know why OW does not want any CS. My H called a week after OC was born to see if they could set up a time to take the paternity test and she just hung up on him. He left a message on her machine saying that the next step was to take the paternity test so my H can take responsibility for the OC. She has never called him back. Why I do not know. She just not make that much and leaves in low income housing. <p>I still don't know if H wants contact he told he did then he changed mind and now he says he does not know.<p>I guess my kids have been distracting me today. So that is a good thing <p>Well I better go.<p>Dawn
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Hi Dawn,<p>I just wantd to say keep your head up. We all have anniversary triggers they say you should create a new memory to overide the old one. Good luck and keep praying.<p>Unsure
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Praying for you during this difficult emotional time...<p>(((hugs)))<p>twiisty
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Hello, Thanks. It is nice to know that there are people thinking about me in my difficult times.<p>Well, I did run three miles yesterday and it felt good getting back into shape after having a baby.<p>I have lost 30 pounds in six months and have ten more to go. <p>Boy do I wish that my H had his Vastemony back In Decemmeber 2000 like he wanted then OC probably would not be his. He had it this past August.<p>Dawn<p>[ February 01, 2002: Message edited by: Dawn71 ]</p>
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