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You said: "I am not in the position to say whether the OP deserves anyones forgivness but I thought sharing my experience might give some insight to those who are wondering how the OP could do the things they've done."<p>And that is fine. But just so you realize, not every OP has the same motivation or behaviors.<p>I've read a lot of incredible histories in 3 years at this site... Sometimes I run off at the mouth anyway, but it's not good to make snap judgements.<p>In my own case, the XOW was (supposedly) a close friend of mine who knew myself and my children very well, and continued to pretend to be a friend throughout the whole A w/my H, then act as if the kids and I never existed after DDay. That's utterly sick and disgusting to me. <p>Every case is different, yet there are similarities we can share, esp. in repairing the damage done to our collective marriages. Let's focus there.<p>In peace,
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I wrote: <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> I also am NOT making any blanket statements and I DO realize every situation is different but this was pretty much my situation and I'm sure it is not out of the ordinary <hr></blockquote><p>Jenny, I'm sorry that you didn't read my entire post. If you had I'm sure you would not have felt the need to say "Every case is different, yet there are similarities we can share, esp. in repairing the damage done to our collective marriages. Let's focus there."
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I wrote: <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> I also am NOT making any blanket statements and I DO realize every situation is different but this was pretty much my situation and I'm sure it is not out of the ordinary <hr></blockquote><p>Jenny, I'm sorry that you didn't read my entire post. If you had I'm sure you would not have felt the need to say "Every case is different, yet there are similarities we can share, esp. in repairing the damage done to our collective marriages. Let's focus there."
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Sorry!!! Didn't mean to say it twice!! [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]
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