I have a question.<p>there is a group of people out there,we all know who they are, that doesnt make any sense to me. they seem to only have one reason for posting. Also, I know this question has been posed before, but im going to ask it once again. Why are you on this board? If you havent noticed the name is marriage BUILDERS. I do not remember reading anywhere in the guidelines an invitation to come in with the intent to stir up trouble, attack individuals, and reopen healing wounds [img]images/icons/mad.gif" border="0[/img] !<p>Half the time it doesnt even seem like you read the posts( or you read the parts you wanna read) before striking out at some one. For example:
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[Q]Twisty
Stop grapsing for straws. Did your H WILLINGLY insert his penis. Does he know that THAT is how babies are made? what the hell is he doing inserting in someone other than his wife.
BOTH PEOPLE ARE EQUALLY RESPONSIBLE. You can rant and rave, make excuses, harp on birth control, pretend yout husbands were poor, weak men who got taken advantage of by these big bad naked women, you can quote the Bible, you can all do ANYTHING you want to continue the denial you are in regarding your H responsibility[Q]
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[Q]I don't think anyone is disputing how a baby is made...it's the whole fact that it happened in the first place. Both parties are guilty and BOTH parties are to blame.[Q]
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HMMM....
And as for this:
QUOTE by Lynxxy<p>Julia said it the best, if it hadn't been for the OW getting knocked up on purpose, he'd still be screwing around with OW - and she thinks she's won something????? SCARY, VERY SCARY!!! <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> <hr></blockquote> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr> <hr></blockquote><p>Whether you failed to read my other posts or just chose to not believe them, i was looking for a way out BEFORE learning of the pregnancy. And you can't win something that is already yours. [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img]<p>[ March 04, 2002: Message edited by: Davidv2 ]</p>

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Davidv2:
[QB]you can't win something that is already yours. QUOTE]<p>Excellent answer, David. You're saying all the right things and I believe you mean them. Every time you declare yourself to Julia, it brings her more and more healing and the two of you closer and closer.<p>You're a good guy, David, and I am glad you're here. We always like it when spouses show up and post their thoughts and feelings. It doesn't happen very often (it gives us hope) so when it does it tells me that the Wayward must be very much in love with the Betrayed to make the effort to clear up any misinformation and are moving heaven and earth to make amends. Seeing this, to me, means that you are very committed to recovery and to your marriage. It tells me you have courage and integrity to face the fire even if it is uncomfortable for you. I respect that. Thanks<p>Catnip =^^=