She confessed to the other other woman that she does a lot of different drugs, and I know for a fact that she drinks and smokes weed(pot). She is also a cigarette smoker, and she claims to be 3months pregnant. When dday happened ow#2 told me she had taken her to her house and let her take a home test, at the time they led me to believe that they both knew she was pregnant cause the test was positive, but I think that was just their united front to get me to leave. About a week ago ow#2 lets me in on the fact that even though they went to take the preg test, ow#1 took it in the bathroom alone and did not let ow#2 see the results, so why not? Because this little wench is lying that's why. She knew I was pregnant and thought the only way she could even compete was to be pregnant too. [img]images/icons/mad.gif" border="0[/img] Somebody tell this stupid [censored] girl that trying to ge preg at 19 with a man you're not in a committed relationship with is plain stupidity. What does she think I do all day with this 30 week old baby inside of me knowing her dads a lying cheater? Does she think I'm happy? Does she think its fun being in my situation? Does she think she is so much better than me that if she were preg he certainly wouldn't treat her this way? My god, ignorance must be bliss. [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Bridgette>>>thanks for letting me vent.

Hello,
I hope she is not pregnant. It sounds like she is not.<p>You made me think a little about my OW. My H told her that I was pregnant. Seems so wierd how things fall into place. The next day he went out with a friend that introduce him to OW. My H was very upset about me being pregnant. Even told OW that. We were having major problems when we found out. At that time my H was just friends with OW. The person that introduce them said to back off and leave him alone he is married with kids. She said she would.<p>So, maybe OW thought by getting pregnant he would leave me for her. Who knows. But when my H asked her to get a paternity test done she just hung up on him. I have no idea why, unless she knows it is not his and wants everyone to believe it is his. So, he will leave me for her. OW wanted to put his name on the birth certificate until she releaize she could not without a paternity test.<p>
Dawn
Dawn

so what do you all think? bumping...

Well, I think that you need to focus on your recovery and leave the OW to their foolishness. They are upsetting you way too much.<p>How is your H doing these days? Is he trying to reassure you? Willing to meet your emotional needs and making plans to work on the marriage? Are you taking care of yourself? God has big plans for your baby, that's for sure! As there is a lot of turmoil surrounding the birth of this baby--to me, that's the proof of the important assignment involved. Keep praying to understand God's purpose in all this. Understanding will come.

I agree with BTDT. Concentrate on your baby and marriage. Good Luck your in my thoughts and prayers.<p>Unsure<p>PS You can only lie about a pregnancy for a short time.

Hi,
I wanted to say concentrate on your marriage on your baby. I was in a similiar situation last year and I decided that I needed to concentrate on being healthy annd not think about OW. You can deal with that later.<p>Dawn