BTDT<p>I just wanted to say that your advice and opinions have helped me tremendously. I've gone back on this board and read lots and you always have a very calm approach. Your Sept 11th post on meeting the OW ...that really helped me.<p>how does it go...when I grow up I want to be just like you? LOL
meaning I hope I have the grace and dignity that you seem to convey.<p>
I thank God each day for all of you, sharing your pain, tears, frustrations and triumphs.<p>
Peace!

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Wow, that was nice of you to say! Thank you! I appreciate that.<p>You know, my involvement with infidelity happened a very long time ago... and, I must say that so much good came into my life out of a bad situation. Being a single parent and all that was not easy, and now that I'm married, I realize that you do really have to work at being a "good wife and a good mom"--whatever that means--I think it means different things because couples are different. We have to figure out what works for our own spouse and then keep working it! <p>Oh well, thanks again and I appreciate all that you have said. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] I'm praying for the MBers. Keep going! Keep pressing on! Keep doing the right thing and hold out for God's rewards! You can make it through! Don't give up on yourself! Keep the faith!