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#809610 03/20/02 10:50 AM
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The OW had a date last weekend. Stupid me asked Doc, "well how do you feel about that?"<p>Doc, " I feel weird."
Me, " why do you feel weird?"
Doc,"because she's carrying MY baby!!"<p>needless to say this did not go over very well with me.I went off on a HUGE tirade, about how I felt he was still emotionally connected to this woman outside of his feelings for the baby.I love busted his butt all over hell and creation...ugh I am glad she's moving on with her life, his reaction leaves me feeling sick.I hate that he works with her and see's her everyday.After further discussion he added that he'd think it was weird that any pregnant woman be dating.I knew this would be hard...I just didn't realize how hard.Days like today I just want to throw in the proverbial towel and try and make sense out of my life on my own.<p>on a brighter note
HAPPY SPRING ( EVEN THO IT'S SNOWING HERE)<p>PEACE!

#809611 03/20/02 11:37 AM
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Men!! Sheesh!!
Keep in mind that a lot of times things come out of thier mouths sounding not quite how they meant it to. If he's not crying, carrying on or in a deep depression over her new man then I'd guess it doesn't bother him all that much.

#809612 03/21/02 05:39 AM
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OMG! You just HAD TO ASK, didn't you? [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] Yucky as it sounded, I know you are glad you asked. But what a THOUGHTLESS answer... I don't even know how he could patch that up even a little bit? Are you okay???? Consider yourself hugged...<p>So now what? What happened? I mean, after you calmed down (if any at all), are you able to discuss how YOU feel about the whole thing? He needs to know exactly how you feel about everything--what he said, his work situation, everything.<p>Obviously OW is moving on with her own life. That's a good thing! That's a really good thing... I hope she falls in love and marries the guy in June! Wouldn't that be great?!


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