Hi allcriedout,<p>I was exactly where you are less than two months ago myself, my SO and I are not married but have been living together for four years, we have a son together and a baby scheduled to be here next week. He is a serial cheater....well here's the link to my story...<p>
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=35&t=002464<p>As of right now we are not sure if she is in fact pregnant, but I'm trying not to let that thought overwhelm me as I have my own child to think about, but SO SEEMS TO BE ON THE UP AND UP THIS TIME, AT LEAST FOR NOW. I can't say whether he'll do it again, but I sure hope he means it when he says it won't happen again. It took a lot of communication and understanding to get where we are now, which is really not far, but a big step from where we were. He has ended contact as far as I can see, but I am very wary of everything these days. My motto has become try to trust but always verify. I don't know if a serial cheater can change, but I will give him the benefit of the doubt one last time. I have made up in my mind that I will not stay, and am very capable of living on my own with our children, and if he f#### up its his own fault. Right now he is on the right path, so I'm working with him because I love him still and because of our family. I hope you can come to a resolution that puts peace in your heart, I know how hard this is. You have to give it to God, and go on with what is best for you and your children, the rest will take care of itself. You and yours are in my prayers, feel free to email me if you want to talk at some1s_mom@hotmail.com.<p>Bridgette
