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#81145 07/17/04 02:37 AM
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My husband and I just got married on May 24,2004. We are not living together. It really bothers me. He started a Men's Ministry in his own home and it seems like the men are more important than me. Thought that I was just being selfish, yet, I am not sure. There was a pastor that said that the man was to provide the house and the woman was to make it a home. Not sure what to do.....have prayed about it over and over and over and over again. Just tired of this "Arrangement". NEED HELP!

#81146 07/26/04 11:04 PM
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I am baffled here. So let me understand this: You lived in separate homes before marriage. Then you got married, and neither of you moved in with the other or are working on getting a new home? You just continued to live in your separate homes? And the reason you live in separate homes is because your husband has a ministry going in him home? Is it a 24/7 ministry and the men live there too? Is that why you aren't living there? And he didn't move in w/you because he has company at his house? Did you not have conversation as to your new address prior to getting married? I am so confused. Please explain.


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