<p>[ June 26, 2002: Message edited by: Tina71 ]</p>

You have my prayers and best thoughts, always,Tina. Our situations are so eerily similar at times, I only wish you the hest.<p>
and I understand you being upset with h wanting not to hurt anything for OW.What about hurting you? hasn't he done enough?

Tina,<p>You're in my thoughts and prayers.<p>Unsure

TINA!!!!!
Oh honey I just read this. It's terrible and you will be dealing with so much more crap.<p>I want to tell you that I wish for you a magical day on your daughters wedding.
Go with H and stand proud and cry tears of joy together.
Enjoy the day and celebrate it.
Our son and dil's wedding was a grand party. On that day all thoughts were of how proud we were of them.
Just a year before I remember shouting to H "You robbed me of standing with you at our son's wedding! How selfish can you be?" "I never wanted to be one of those people who stood in line with 2 sets of parents!" That was before we even knew a wedding was going to happen.<p>God granted me peace and the gift of standing and dancing with H at the wedding.<p>I know it's hard with all you're facing now. Please stay tough for now.
You've come a long way from d-day.
Do it for yourself and daughter. The pictures will never show what was going on at the time and will be a wonderful memory for your daughter.<p>God bless you, Tina.<p>love
Debi

{{{{{{{{{{{{tina}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}<p>No words of wisdom, just a hug and a<p>prayer,
J
(in recovery 3.5y and happy [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] )