I am so mad right now, and upset...i just got back from my holidays, i only get 15 days a year, i took only 7 of them, cut it off early to bring my kids back to my in-laws so they could see them. On my holiday (without the husband) i took my kids to see my family and spend a few days at my cousins cabin...my H phones me a few days before coming home and says "you should take the kids to see my grandma it was a 2 hour drive out of the way there, my kid gets car sick, and i already had other plans, plus my kids had already seen her earlier this month. So i didn't go, yes i was being selfish, but dammit i only had a few days of vacation and I wanted to enjoy them instead of driving somewhere...well now hes not talking to me, even though last year when he was in town and only 5 min away from his gramma he didnt' even go see her!!! hes being a total [censored] to me now, won't talk to me, won't touch me, total withdrawl as if hes punishing me, he sat there and said, anytime it comes to my family you totally avoid them...which is so friggin untrue...yes his mother pisses me off...b/c she plays headgames with my kids, she has depression and a gambling addict....but i'm the one that buys all the xmas and bday presents for his parents, send them emails to keep in touch, i'm the one that takes the kids there when we are in town etc....so i don't want to make the first move here, i haven't said a word to him, and hes the type that won't give in at all, unless i make the first move..i refuse too...he is being a real [censored] about it....usually i would just cave and say sorry even though its not my fault! he even went so far as to tell my dad when he phoned, she didn't even go visit my gramma...like my dad friggin cares,like hes trying to get people pissed off at me...or something...idiot!
anyways, had to vent...thankx for listening.
