tmcm,,,,,, thanks for your concern. it has been very busy around here lately with all the kids activities. <p> things have seemed to calm down a bit the last couple of days here. the road has been very bumpy. maybe that is because memorial day 2001 was my d-day so to speak. although i felt i new of fh's a and condition that is the day i finally sat her down and grilled most of the truth out of her. i feel that i have a good idea of why this happened now and frankly that reason just pi$$e$ me off. late sunday night i was ready to walk out. anyway i didn't leave and we are blodding along again. <p>catnip,,,,, i agree with what you said in another post about money most certainly being able to buy happiness. it may not be able to buy love but it can most definately pay bills, make repairs when things break, allow you time to take vacations and revitalize yourself and your marriage from stress, plan for your future, strike when the iron is hot (as you mentioned), afford health and life insurances for your families security, and establish a financial plan for retirement, all these things can relieve a tremendous amount of stress that people tend to worry about as they get older.<p>jl,,,, thank you for again pointing out the difference in my situation in regards to age and cs issues. we had talked about them before but as so many here are on the $#!tty end of the cs issue most are looking for the reform of the laws where i am looking for the laws to be as tough on om as possible for my own peace of mind on security. <p> what a coinsedence that when my youngest graduates from hs i too would have been 60. and now with grace i will be on pushing 70. the thought of being 70 in itself can be a scary one.
Lord my father just passed away last year at 77. <p> gotta go,
pops
