When I met my husband, he claimed to have a multiple personality disorder. He claimed to have a rare type that makes the other person able to create a personality at will and control and subdue these personalities. I was okay with this and was sure that everything would work out if we were honest with each other. I have come to find out from people who know him, that he has slept with several people (in one case three strangers) while we were engaged. I confronted him and he readily admitted it, but swears it isn't him and I should not fault him. I don't know what to think. He lost his job 6 months ago and we have a 10 month old. I don't think I can forgive him and he doesn't think there is anything to forgive. I have been trying to save our marriage since the baby was born, but he has become increasingly insulting and cruel to me, even in front of my friends. He recently told me he wants us to be a family and we should work together, but I don't know if I can deal with it. My heart has hardened against him and I don't know if it will change. Help me please.

Did he receive treatment from a psychotherapist?
If so, then he is aware that he is responsible for his actions. I was married to a man with MPD, and he learned to use it to his advantage. I ended up with an STD, thanks to his screwing aroung. We have a daughter together, but he is not allowed to see her. As a matter of fact, she refuses to see him. His actions toward her caused her to wish he was dead. I divorced him and it was the best move I ever made. Email me and I can go into more detail. Maybe I can help.