There need not be any replies from anyone on this post.<p>Tempest,
I would like to officially resign from my membership to this site. I know the moderators stress that everyone who is building or rebuilding a marriage has equal rights posting here but it is not so. I am asked not to be so "defensive" or "sensitive", yet I am being asked to do this by people who can't even practice it themself. I am asked not to take some posts so personally, yet also being asked to take extra care that I do not offend certain people when I post. I am told that certain people have the right to vent how ever they please yet I must take extra care if I wish to do so. I am seeing excuses made for certain people exhibiting unacceptable behavior yet for others there are no exceptions. I'm sorry but this does not create an atmosphere for healing, building or rebuilding of any kind. I am not a second class citizen nor do I wish to be treated as one. It is not just one incident. For months I have turned away from threads that I personally found very offensive. Something that everyone here should learn how to do. There is a difference between healthy, productive debate and bashing. Something else some people need to learn. Even though there are many good people in this forum the majority of what I see going on has been of no help to me at all and certainly not what I need or want in my life at the moment.

want it back<p>I HEAR YOU...<p>Please check out www.divorcebusting.com, people are MUCH less judgemental there imo.