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When i found out about affair ow was already preg and affair has already ended....so how does the plan a work for me? everything ive read and understand its for during the affair.
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This is from K's post on your last thread:<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>And he's only going to be "grateful" to you if you're providing him a safe, loving environment. <hr></blockquote><p>Creating a loving enviornment and practicing good marital skills is the purpose of Plan A.<p>Z.
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Maybe now you can concentrate on filling your H's top emotional needs, and that would create a safe loving environment... Have you both filled out the EN questionnaire and the LB questionnaire? Those are very helpful to locate each other. The results can be surprising! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
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i asked him if he'd be willing to do them last nite...he said yes although didnt sound happy...told me to give it to him but when i did copped a major attitude with me. so if im not fullfilling some need how am i suppose to find out when he doesnt even wanna go thru the process of trying
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