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We all have those little things that give us strength that keeps us going everyday. Whenever I feel like giving up on my H or I start to wonder "why am I still here?" I like to listen to Donnie McClurkin's Alter Call. It makes me think "How can I expect God to forgive me of my sins if I can't forgive other's?" I know I am not God...I am human and there comes a point to when do you say enough is enough??? But aren't we so lucky that GOD never says ENOUGH?
<p>"The bible says in Proverbs 24:18 'A just man- a JUST man- falleth 7 times but rises back up again'. Now what makes him just? We in the church would call him wicked if he falls seven times. One time we can understand, twice maybe, but SEVEN times? Well, what makes him "Just" from the bible stand point is that he has enough sense to realize that he can get back up. And not only just get back up but get back in line. No matter where you've fallen from, no matter what you've done, no matter how many times you've done it, it's not too late. He is so much in love with you that His mercy endures. His mercy is everlasting. It's not too late. No matter WHAT you've done, no matter where you've been, God is still faithful and He's still just even when we're unfaithful and when we're NOT just. He's so faithful and just that He will forgive you of every single solitary sin. No matter how many promises you've made and broken, no matter how many times you've done it over and over and over again. I'm a living witness He will forgive you, like He forgave me. He's just waiting on you to confess. Just say 'Lord, have mercy. Forgive me. I'm not even going to make you any more promises, You know my heart. I want to do right. Show me how. Take me back. Put me back in line. I love you. Teach me how to walk right. Break every habit. Loose me from every addiction. Come into my life and my heart and live in me and through me. I give you my life for the rest of my life.' And just that quickly, you're forgiven. Just that quickly, you're healed. He's your God and you're His child. No condemnation. No condemnation! Don't remember the past sins because He's forgotten them. Isaiah 43:25 says 'I, even I, am He that blocks out your transgressions and for mine own sake, I will not remember your sins." If He's forgotten them, then you forgive and forget too. You're healed, you're saved, you're whole."<p>We can not comprehend the magnitude of Christ's love for us but it is our jobs as Christians to strive to be Christ-like. We hurt God so much every day in our actions, words, and even thoughts that are not pleasing to Him but He never stops loving us. My H may make mistakes but I will not stop loving him.

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lost soul,
THANK YOU for sharing [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>I have often thought of King David, who not ONLY coveted and commited adultery, but also murdered the husband to cover for conception of OC!! Though he was punished, he was still considered a righteous man and God did not give up on him, and blessed his lineage for generations. <p>Also, I think of the "Our Father" which says "...forgive us our trespasses AS we forgive those who trespass against us." I think we are suppose to offer the same mercy to others that we would like God to offer us, hard as that may be at times! (Note, by mercy, I do not mean letting others mis-use us!)<p>I certainly do not understand all the mysteries of God nor the Bible, but I find these passages very interesting. <p>Thanks again,
J<p>[ June 12, 2002: Message edited by: Jenny ]</p>

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WOW,<p>Thank you for that insight this morning 1LS! It is SO true!<p>Tigger

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OMG 1LostSoul,<p>So funny that you mentioned that song. <p>Months before d-day my husband played that song over and over. Of course I was too deep into my own work fog, that I never even saw it as a clue that something was wrong.<p>Then on d-day morning, after he told me and was heading off to work, he put that song on and reminded me how often he had been playing it over the last months. He said it gave him the strength to tell me the whole truth. He knew that I may not have forgiven him, but God surely did.<p>That song kept me afloat until we moved closer into a true recovery. Then I adopted Kurt Carr's "He Kept Me" as my theme song.<p>My new theme song is now a gospel tune called "Constantly" by Clay Evans. It talks about giving thanks constantly...which I do.<p>You made me smile today.
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