Hello to all! It has been weeks since I have posted. We have been trying to move on with our lives after almost two years of recovery. <p>My H and I just got back from my brother's wedding on Thursday night. I was checking my cellphone voicemail and my heart sank once again. A woman who called herself a name I had never heard of said she has been "sleeping with my man"! She went on to describe every vehicle we have owned for the past three years, named every street we have lived on since we moved to this area and even went so far as to describe my old furniture. She stated that she has had a relationship with my h for about three years and will be there long after I am gone.
Her voice was one I did not recognize and she actually sounded about 60 years old with no teeth. At the end of her tirade, she stated that the exow never had a chance with my h and that she will wait for my h to leave me or for me to leave him. She ended it with every time I am kissing my h, I am tasting her! Real class!
Three things besides the message itself sent up some red flags that the exow is really behind this.
1. The woman threw in her (exow) name at the end almost as if this was supposed to throw me off.<p>2. My h doesn't ever and I don't mean to be graphic, but how can I put this...let's just say there is no way that I would taste her when I was kissing him. He doesnt do that!<p>3. Our exow knows all the same information that this woman claims to know and she could have gotten it all from exow.<p>My H denies all of this and says not only does he not know a "name" but he doesnt recognize the voice. He has been brutally and totally honest with me since D-day almost two years ago and has been on a very tight leash. Or at least I thought so. I do not know what to think. I would not put it past exow to pull this kind of stunt. We have not heard from her since February and I was shocked that she hasnt tried to pull anything.<p>What do I do about this? I tried calling back this person, but somehow the number is a fax machine. I am trying to find out where this message originated from, but I am not sure what else I can do. If I could prove it was anyone, I would let them know in no uncertain terms that if they call our house again, I am filing harrassment charges. Oh, and also, if my h was sleeping with her, why would he ever give her MY cellphone number. Now exow had it because I gave it to her when we had visitation. Oh this SUCKS!!!
I am open to any advice and would greatly appreciate it.

Tryin,<p>I'm sorry you are faced with this. If you called the number back and it was a fax machine that means it was a public telephone that doesn't receive incoming calls. I hope that helps sorry I don't have much advice.<p>Unsure

Thanks for the response. Exow used to call, before d-day, on pay phones and hang up. Not that that really means anything. Oh I wish I could know one way or the other for sure. This is just so unreal. I cannot even imagine what I should do about all of this.