UW,
I was wondering how you are doing, haven't seen you on the boards lately. I hope everything is going ok. How is C with Steve going? Things are a little rocky here. H patience is wearing thin. I pleaded with him to go back to original MC since he does not like the women we have been seeing and has refused to go back to her. Hopefully the old MC will help get us back on track.

Tina

<small>[ July 05, 2002, 04:56 PM: Message edited by: Tina71 ]</small>

bump up for UW

Tina, I am o.k. My family and I were away, so reason for not posting on boards. H and I continue along, he has not yet finished his assignment from Steve to me and until he does, we do not have an appt . set up with him.

Being away made me realize life with OC is not possible for me, as I always knew. I cannot change my life for my H due to his and OW's stupidity. He admits OW refused to use birth control and did not want him to wear condoms. He admits he was just stupid to agree to that, but believed OW;s thoughts she could not get pregnant. Steve heard this story, and wondered if OW used my H to get pregnant and have a child. I actually agree with that.

If OC was totally out of our life, I think I could move on and try and be with H, but it still will be a hard journey. I have not forgiven him yet, I do not trust him, I do not respect him, and I have lost much of the things I loved about him throughout this situation. I am staying because my kids benefit from a two parent family, and for them I will try.

As for you,Tina, maybe you should consider having appts. with the Harleys. I think you are stuck in therapy with the present therapists and maybe you need a jump start with a new one.What do you think?