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hello...this is first time to this site....i have been married for 29 years...and in last few years have falling out of love with my wife and have been very unhappy....i recently met someone..and fell madly in love with her...but now...looks like she is going to end it...and i cant cope with losing her.....just cant stop thinking about her..and it is affecting everything....
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photoguy -
Welcome to marriagebuilders. Probably you should be posting under General Questions II. That is where most of the traffic is.
If you want to save your marriage, you can follow the program here, and have a much better marriage than before. But you won't get much help here to continue your affair.
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Dear Photoguy,
You are on a marriage builders site, so do not expect to get a whole lot of advice except. Great that she has the sense to end it and maybe you should take a second look at the last 29 years. I am on the other end of things coincidentally married to a photographer who cheated after 27 years. Thought he did not love me, madly in love etc. Well it blew up in his face and mine and we are restoring and renewing something pretty incredible, marriage. You know that commitment that you made for better or for worse.... Read Dr. Harleys information carefully and learn from others on this site what you need to do next. I wish you the best and prya for your marriage to be restored like mine is being restored even now!
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Photoguy,
Been in your shoes. Havent been married that long, but have been togeather 15 years.
I have come to realize something and this is the first time I have actually said it.
IF THE OW WAS SO GREAT SHE WOULDNT BE AFTER YOU!!!
If a woman is worth a relationship, she wouldnt go after a married man. Maybe its just how I am feeling now about the OW but at my time of weakness this woman took advantage of my needs.
Pay attention to what you can learn on this site, follow it. It is a great road map to a happy marriage.
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Omg!! that is what happened with my dad!! ya well i know what u mean.....he was happy with my mom for so many years then he met angi and fell in love with her and they involved me and i once did love angi like a mom but now i despise her my advice for u is drop her before u hurt someone i know my dad hurt my mom badly please take my advice!!
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