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Okay heres the story...i am 15 years old and when i was 14 my dad had an affair with my best friend who was 28 well they told me and i kept it a secret for 6 monthes all that time i told my dad it was okay with me all i wanted was for him to be happy....well it got to me so i finally told my mom....she has a heart problem and needs a heart transplant...she was heartbroken kinda upset that i kept it from her....well i realized that what my dad did was use me and i got really depressed and still am and i cant even be around my friends without crying and guy asked me out and i had a panic attack and ran off....all i am asking for is some advice please help me i dont know what to do...
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Please someone give me advice!!
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Rachel,
I am relativly new here, but if you post this over on the Emotional Needs board it will probably get more attention. I am sure Baba2 or star*fish or some of the long time MBers will get you going in the right direction
Good luck
LIP
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Dearest Rachel,
I am new to this board, too. I felt compelled to at least respond to your post to let you know that you've been heard, and hearts go out to you. You are still so young and impressionable. Your Dad put you in a horrible spot. I know you feel guilty, but you did nothing wrong. The so called adult here did. I'm sure you love both your Mom and Dad and feel torn. There are so many issues going on in your family right now. Dearheart... please go seek some counseling. People here can be very supportive but you need someone close by. Perhaps a guidance counselor at school, or a trusted teacher or friend can help you find the appropriate person to talk to and help you work through all this.
Keep us informed. You have done a brave and wise thing by reaching out for help. I'll keep positive thoughts for you.
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