I have been married for 8 years and been with my husband for almost 11 years now and we have 4 children together. My husband says that he loves me but doesn't know how much (in love? or just love?)so he just packed a bag and went to a friends house, said he needed time alone to sort his feelings and to decide if he wants to stay in the marriage or not. My fear is: he's staying with a single guy friend of his, no kids,meaning piece and quiet after work, which obviously would be enjoyable after being used to the hectic household we have here with 4 kids.Anyway, I fear that he will not want to stay in the marriage.He just told me about his feelings lastnight,stayed for Thanksgiving dinner with me & the kids and just left tonight.Any advice? I really want him to come back home and I want this marriage to work. I love him with all my heart.