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#814331 08/15/02 09:38 AM
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Wish me luck everyone! H told me last night that XOW's BF went and took the DNA test and the results should be in next week (unless the lab is backed up really bad-then it will be the week after). I'll let everyone know what the results are, but please keep your fingers crossed for me.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Thanks for all your support and advice.

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Good Luck. I hope the baby is OW boyfriends.

Dawn

#814333 08/15/02 09:54 AM
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I 2nd that!

Here's praying for the best to come from this!

#814334 08/15/02 10:08 AM
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Thanks so much. I'm ready for all of this to be finally over. I hope it's BF's also, but even if it's H's I'll be glad to finally know something and quit living in limbo. I know that sounds weird, but the "not knowing" I think is going to drive me insane. Glad it will soon be over.

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Dumplin,
I understand because I do not know if OC is my H and OC was born October 2001.

Dawn

#814336 08/16/02 12:46 AM
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GOOD LUCK <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Thanks for the support. Keep us in your prayers.

I'll let everyone know the results as soon as I know.

#814338 08/15/02 02:29 PM
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Limbo isn't even a fun party game!

Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EJ

#814339 08/15/02 08:21 PM
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Dumplin,
Here's to the best answer you can receive.

Whatever it is , God will help you choose the path you should walk.

Prayers and love
Debi

#814340 08/16/02 09:40 AM
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No, EJ, limbo is not a fun game at all! I agree.

Thanks, Gemini, for your prayers and support. I really appreciate it.

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Hi Dumpling

GOODLUCK!!!!!

#814342 08/18/02 08:13 AM
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H is finally coming home tonight!!! He's been on the road since July 12th and I can't wait to see him. Happy happy, joy joy!!!!!

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hope the homecoming was special. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

#814344 08/20/02 09:30 AM
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MOM,

Yes ma'am it was, thank you. LOL. Have to be a little crude here and say I feel MUCH better now, ROFL!!! Twice in one night better matter of fact.

Now to the nice stuff. Kids and I made a banner saying "Welcome Home" and turned off all the lights. When H came in, I turned the lights on and we all yelled "Surprise". 4 year old ran to hug his dad while 10 year old was busy trying to spray him with that spray string stuff. LOL. We had a pretty good time, but I could tell H was tired. He came in around 9:00 and everyone was in bed by 10:00. They drove straight home (over 1000 miles) after their show so he hadn't had much sleep in over 24 hours. All in all it was a great night.

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Glad to hear it and you sound so happy <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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So far, so good. He's really been trying. We haven't heard anything on the testing yet, but neither one of us have mentioned it. I'm just enjoying him being home right now. I know it will come up soon and I'll be glad to finally know something. I know he talked to her yesterday while I was gone, but he said it was only for about 3 minutes and was just making sure everything was still on track.

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Dumplin,
Just wondering the result came back yet? I was just thinking of you.

Dawn

#814348 08/23/02 02:04 PM
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Dawn,

Thanks for the thought. No, the results haven't came in yet. H told me yesterday that XOW told him she hadn't seen BF since the day he was supposed to do the testing so she doesn't even know if he actually went and took the test or not. So I'm still living in limbo and beginning to HATE every "extra" day I have to spend there. I wish this would hurry up and be over with, but it seems like everyone is dragging their feet. I have to be very careful and watch my tongue because I will LB majorly if I don't. I'm not a very patient person and that is something that I'm having to work on within myself.

I know it takes time to work things out, but I want everything to be the way it used to be RIGHT NOW. I know that sounds bad, but I have to get it out.

Thanks for asking and thinking of me. I've been here; just normally lurking though.


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