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Okay, I mentioned on another thread that I would like to be a fly on the wall during just one of H's conversations with XOW and said that if I could record his phone calls that I would. I was told that I could get everything I needed at Radio Shack. Does this seem like a good idea to anyone? Especially with H complaining that I treat him like a prisoner by checking up on him? Just wondering about it....
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Will your husband like it...NO He will not,But you can go along and fight for answers every single day and get nothing... Men are firm believers in [if you admit nothing you do not get in trouble]
Is it sneaky!? Yes, it is, but no different than you checking his cell phone or email. It will give you the answers you want.. It might prove you are wrong and need to do some serious mending.. It might prove you are right and you need to decide what your life is headed for.
I am sure you will get many different opinions and maybe some variety will help you make up your mind.
But you asked how you could record, thats how.
You sound desperate for answers, I dont know how else you can get them.
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Yes, I'm desperate for answers. Beyond desperate actually--about to go out of my mind is more like it. The problem is if he finds out there won't be any mending; it will be over period. Whether I'm right or I'm wrong.
I think I would feel more secure if he would let me know what's going on, but he gets irritated if I ask if he's talked to her and tells me he's taking care of it.
Any more thoughts????
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dumplin,
I just posted to you on your other thread about this very same subject. Want some answers? Some suggestions? Email me and I'll let you know about my experience and help where I can.
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I sorta think your damned if you do damned if you dont. You can only make that choice for your self.
But what are you willing to live with... That is the big question.
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LOL MOF I agree whole-heartedly!!! That's my life though; I've learned to live with it. I try to be "good" in his eyes and go as long as I can stand it and then I do what I feel I should do.
NC, I just sent you an e-mail. I'll be waiting for your response.
<small>[ September 02, 2002, 11:21 PM: Message edited by: dumplin ]</small>
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Our server must be down again since I can't get into my e-mail account--been having trouble last couple of days.
NC, did you get my message?
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I got it dumplin and replied,,proabably about 15-20 min ago. Hopefully you'll get it soon!!
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I just sent you a new address to try. Just forward the other message to the new address.
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Evidently your outgoing mail is not going out either. I haven't received any new mail so I don't have the new email address.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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You didn't get a message saying "Try this one"? Dang it! I used a different e-mail...oh well. If you don't get the new one in the next 15 minutes, don't use it. You'll understand why.....
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To snoop or not to snoop...that is the question...
I vote for pulling out the stops and launching an all encompassing investigation.
Knowledge is power.
Catnip =^^=
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