I have the results of my test and I'm po'ed. She's the only woman he wants, blah, blah, blah. He did go to her house the other day when he told me he was looking for monitors. I don't even know what to say. She wants him to come down Monday, but he tried for Tuesday since I'll be home Monday.

I'm kicking him out; I'm sick of it. He is lying to her and he wants to be here. But now that I'm kicking him out, he's running to her. Yeah, that proves his point; doesn't it.

dumplin,

I'm confused:

what test?

how did he lie to her?

did i miss something?

Tell us more so we can support you.

Z.

Did you tape him ? and this is what you found out. I am a little confused. ARE YOU OK!?

Dumplin,
I am sorry to hear that things aren't going well for you. What test came back? I want to return the favor. I'm hear if you want to talk also, just like you replied to my post. I will pray for you tonight.

God Bless
DBH

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Yes I taped him. Sorry I was so irate that I know I must have confused everyone. Well needless to say, he failed the taping test. Then when I asked him to leave he told me he was going to her house so that sealed it for me. I told him to go. He's staying at a hotel tonight I guess; he called and left me a number in case I need to get in touch with him (I'm not calling him at all.)

He said that he was telling her all that stuff so he could get her out of his hair; make any sense to anyone else? Not me and I'm not putting up with it. Telling her she's the only woman he wants and that he loves her and talking about seeing her naked doesn't seem like he's trying to get rid of her to me. There was about 5 seconds of discussion over the baby (saying she had an a doctor's appointment was it) during a 30 minute conversation. I'm sick of him and his crap. He also brought up the ONS person saying he wondered if she was home. He was doing what he could to hurt me and push my buttons and I just told him to go on.

Yes and no on the okay part. I'm madder than h#ll and I'm hurt and I'm --- I don't know how I am.

I am sorry you are still being lied to, I know you would have rathered a different outcome, but now you have to think long and hard about what you will do. Dont make rash decisions, and yes he is still involved, but that doesnt mean it is all over.. Because you didnt really want it to be over, so he is mad, He is only mad he got caught, that is it.
He will get over that. You have to decide what you will put up with or wont.

But if you dont take a stand for your self you destin your self to be cheated on over and over again and do you want that ?

I guess you could say that I already made a rash decision. I told him to get his stuff and get out.

I'm not going to put up with it anymore. I gave him different options and he wouldn't take any of them. I told him it was me or her and the only option he had to talk to her was if I was present since the baby situation still isn't cleared up. He wouldn't take that option so he's gone.

I guess I'm in Plan B--I don't even want to talk to him. We do have two kids though so I will have to have some contact. I'm not putting up with any more crap period. As Catnip would say, I'm tired of taking it on the chin, lol. If he wants me back, he's going to earn it. I don't know for sure if it's over; I'm not filing for divorce. I couldn't even if I wanted to since I have no money.