To whomever posted at GloryB.

DO NOT, I repeat, Do not go posting over there. It will only start trouble and lead more and more OW with bad intentions here.

We do not need this board overrun by those types of OW who do this board a disservice.

We will deal with the occassional interloper when they come here ... but we will deal with them on our board ... not theirs.

Lurk if you must. I do. But do not post derogatory or inflamatory remarks on their board. It does no-one here any good!

Please,
Z.

Hi Z

Where is this post located? I would like to lurk but not post.

I don't belong on this particular board, but I occasionally peruse different sections of MB. I gotta say...when I saw this post I went and checked out that "GloryB" site...and I have never, ever seen anything more disgusting and repulsive in my entire life!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

Totally horrible, hurtful creatures over there...I fully recommend that the good people who are trying to heal and build, stay away from that site! Ugh!

<small>[ September 10, 2002, 05:34 PM: Message edited by: straycat ]</small>

Just a lurker usually... Not flaming, but just have to say....

I was a BS and a very dedicated Christian. I swore I would never, ever do that to another woman. Now, I am an OW who posts and finds a lot of hope/encouragement on boards like TOW.

I am not a horrible, hurtful creature. I am a human being like you. I must say that I have even seen my 2bx's xOW in a different light. I realized the whole thing was probably more painful to her than it was to me.

Doesn't the *church* teach that to judge someone is to bring that same judgement down on your own heads?? Judge not less you be judged?? Jesus hung out with the prostitutes and other sinners. He called the so-called holy people of the time vipers.

Never say never... You could be in my shoes someday...

notmybaby

This is the first time I've posted on either board as I lurk on both due to my situation. I find some of the things I read on both boards to be questionable, but I haven't ever expressed what I think, how I feel, or anything personal about myself regarding the postings.

I have, on the other hand, followed quite a few stories when it comes to those that frequent these boards including some of you here. The situations that are spoken of here, and there, are nothing to take lightly as I'm sure you know.

From what I've read thus far it seems as though NO one is thinking of the children involved. They're so wrapped up in their own selfishness that they forget who is really going to get the raw deal. Zebrababy, you know that was you that posted those things over there. I have read enough of your postings to know your online dialogue - that was you.

Once again, it goes back to some or all of the involved parties playing psychological games with the other. Why must everyone try to make themselves feel better by tormenting someone else? I'm in no way saying that there is anyone completely innocent of their role in these situations, except the child(ren). Not the BS, not the WS, not the OW. Only the child.

Please try to spare the children while you wage war with each other.

Lurking_With_Intent:

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Zebrababy, you know that was you that posted those things over there. I have read enough of your postings to know your online dialogue - that was you. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">yeah, right.

I post over there every so often under a different username.

Who am I?

NO ONE HAS ANSWERED MY QUESTION WHERE IS THIS POST

MALC,

The site is called GloryB, but you need to realize before you go there that the site is their haven. I truly hate when posters from EITHER side go to the other site to cause trouble, whether intentional or not! It just makes a whole lot of trouble on both sites that isn't needed. I know that you stated that you were just curious, but be warned that if you do post, you need to be courtieous, as anything less will get this going much worse than it already is.

For the rest of us here, who have been through this same cr@p, MANY, MANY times.....Let it just die from this point on! I agree w/Z, DO NOT POST OVER ON THEIR SITE unless you are willing to defend what you have done!

For the two new "lurkers" who've come out of hiding, please, just leave it be. I also occasionally lurk at the other site, but have never posted. I have only seen a couple posts that have been edited by your moderators, but definately not enough for this to get out of hand! As I said in the paragraph above, just let it die, and you guys get on with your lives, as we will get on with our own!

And finally, there is SO much more going on in life, especially right now, than having these little pissing matches to see who can out distance the other! Why don't we put the energy that is used to "crash" the other's board into much better use!

I, for one, will be praying for those who've lost loved ones due to last year's disaster, and hope that many will join me!

Tigger

I don't want to post there I'm just looking
is her site part of MB and under what topic?

MALC,
No their site is not a part of MB. Nowhere near a part.
The site is www.gloryb.com and they have forums, in very close to the same format as we have here.

Lurking_With_Intent
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Zebrababy, you know that was you that posted those things over there. I have read enough of your postings to know your online dialogue - that was you.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Oh really? Well guess what chick? You are WRONG... I KNOW who posted and it wasn't Z... and it wasn't me...
So... Let it drop <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

I agree with Tigger, Let this drop.

Nuff said.

Not interested in starting a board war. Just wanted to make my statement. I did. I'm done!

notmybaby

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by ohnonotmybaby:
<strong>Not interested in starting a board war. Just wanted to make my statement. I did. I'm done!

notmybaby</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Good, because there is a more important war raging in our world.
Lets not waste our time here, fighting over spilled milk. In the big picture of life, it just doesn't matter.

How about we all spend today honoring our Great Nation, loving our families, and being grateful for the air in our lungs? Today is very hard for me as I'm sure it is for many. It is a painful reminder of what I lost personally, what so many others have lost, including those who lost their lives just going about their normal day.
You never know what today or any day may bring. Lets drop the hate and get with living. We can only do the best we can and nothing more.

CM

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by CMiranda:
<strong>[QUOTE].

How about we all spend today honoring our Great Nation, loving our families, and being grateful for the air in our lungs? CM</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Amen CM!
Lets not forget the brave men and women serving in our armed forces and their families making the sacrifice allowing them to do so.

I'm posting my response since I was so blatantly called out, and then I'm asking the moderator to lock the thread.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Zebrababy, you know that was you that posted those things over there. I have read enough of your postings to know your online dialogue - that was you.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Lurking With Intent and any other lurkers,

I did not post on gloryb as Polland. I have no need to post to her there, since I said everything I needed to say to her here. How do I know she read what I wrote here ... because she quickly went back to her board and deleted all of the words she had written that I referred to. I'm sure out of shame.

There was and is no purpose for me to go there and post to her again. And if I had anything more to say to her, I would have sent her a PM under the name I do use at glory B. Yes I have posted there in the long ago past, with respect and have received the same in return.

I did not go there as Polland because I know what kind of rubble it starts.. look at your being here ... that's what it starts when someone goes to another board with guns blazing.

I plead kindly with the members of MB not to go to gloryb and post, and yet you feel the need to slither over here and put your $0.02 in.

Thank you, but no thank you. Leave it alone ... let it drop. Your moderator locked the thread at gloryb almost immediately. Our moderators give us a bit more flexibility. They like to see people express ideas as adults, unfortunately you have come here in attack mode against me. And for that I will ask that the thread be closed.

Please do not post to me or any other member of this site unless you are interested in support to rebuild your marriage.

Zebrababy!

p.s. just for fun, ask your moderator to check my IP address and match it to other registered members of gloryb. She'll be able to prove to you it wasn't me!

<small>[ September 12, 2002, 09:28 AM: Message edited by: zebrababy ]</small>

Hello to all you valued members on the Pregnancy/Child section.

I'm just checking in to say hello and do as requested.

Take care,

<small>[ September 12, 2002, 11:02 AM: Message edited by: Xarelel ]</small>