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My H had OC with OW 4 yrs. ago. It is a very devestating part of my life. He does not have contact with OW or OC except to pay support. We have been married for 22 yrs. with 2 children. We chose to save our marriage after a period of separation. We live far from OC. I feel for this OC who will not know his father. I pray that he has a positive male figure in his life. I often question choices made. I pray God blesses all.
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mq, Welcome to the board. I have found solace and wisdom here over the years (and some horse-pucky too LOL). It is good to know you're not alone in these life-altering, gut-wrenching, I-m-on-a-bad-talk-show horrible events.
We have some things in common. It has also been 4 years for us, and we are also long distance from OC. Contact is very limited.
You said: "I pray that he has a positive male figure in his life. I often question choices made. I pray God blesses all."
Ditto and AMEN. Post anytime <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Godbless, J glad I stayed...
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