Closing day on the new house is Oct. 14. My H is cosigning but the house will be in my name. There is so much to do and I want my H help but don't want to ask. We have so much stuff. H is living with OW and OCs. He comes over and shows love and concern for my son and I. My son doesn't think he will move back but I still hold out hope. I really want and need him. I resent the OW for being rewarded for her bad behavior. She seems to think it is perfectly fine to take my H away from his family and have kids with him. H is mixed up. She says that he is fine and capable of taking care of himself. They will have a wonderful life together. Then why did it take him 2 years to decide to move in with her? Why has be been in therapy every week for 1 1/2 years if he is fine? When I ask him how he is he doesn't say he is fine? All I hear about is how may diapers he has changed, vomiting, and going to sleep at 2 am.

I'm really feeling your pain. I think he should help you move after all he is your Husband first you both have a son together.