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#816209 10/17/02 06:19 PM
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I have been given

(((((THE GET OUT OF JAIL FREE CARD)))))))))

My H and I spoke to ex OW tonight. We hadn't heard a word from her since we called her bluff regarding her attorney letter, well, her and her H had a DNA test done and the little boy that was born 2 weeks ago is his son.

We have been truly blessed by our Lord Jesus Christ.

We can now get on with our life and experience the new love and closness that we have found for each other.

I want all of you to know, how thankful I am for having all of you to turn to!!!!!!

This has been the most difficult past 6 1/2 months of my life. But now I have closure and continue my recovery and enjoy my new Godly H

God Bless You All

DBH

#816210 10/17/02 06:32 PM
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I am so happy for you. Maybe I will get mine soon!

Dawn

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Congratulations on the results. Best wishes to you for a complete and full recovery and may your marriage be better than it ever was and keep improving as the years go by! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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Whewwww,, a BIG sigh of relief for you and your H!

Wishing you successful rebuilding and a happy future!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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That would be maginificent news. Glad to hear it.

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Congratulations, I can say that I know EXACTLY what you are feeling now.

We are truely lucky to only have to deal with recovery from an A and not be burdened with decisions on visiation, CS or the betrayal of our husband fathering a child out of our marriage.

God has looked kindly on you and your marriage. What will you do to "repay" him. What you have already done in your post: glorify his name. Not too hard when you are as joyous as you are right now.

Hold onto that joy and keep your eye on the prize ... a healed and heathy marriage.

Congratulations again.

Saying a prayer of thanksgiving for you tonight,
Z.

<small>[ October 20, 2002, 07:51 PM: Message edited by: zebrababy ]</small>

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Dear DBH,

Praise God that you have been spared this.

I love our OC but there isn't a day that I wouldn't gladly take that she weren't my H's or that some good, loving man comes into exOW's life and wants to adopt her.

Enjoy your freedom and best of luck on building a wonderful marriage.

MJ

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DBH,

What wonderful news for you and your H! Now you can begin the true process of healing, w/out this looming over your head! I am so happy for you!

Love,

Tigger

#816217 10/21/02 07:29 PM
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All,

Thank you all so much for your replys. I feel so blessed and I praise God everyday several times a day for his gift. I pray for peace for everyone on this board no matter what situation your in.

DBH


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