I'm beginning to wonder if H knows what marriage is. I went to my mother's today since he was hunting most of the day (of course he waited until the football game was over). I called to say that I was headed home and I got the answering machine.

H called back and his first question was, "Why are you coming home so soon?" Okay, I ignored my first response and said that I was bringing a roast home and was bored. H said that he was headed to get something to eat and go by K's (his friend that I can't stand) for a little while. I didn't hide the displeasure in my voice and said, "Well I guess I can hang out here for a little longer." H said that he wasn't going to drink or anything and wouldn't be out all night. I replied with, "Just half the night, right?" H asked why we had to go through this every time he went over there, added that it's not like he goes all the time (well no, he's usually working on the weekends and this guy works during the week, duh), and said he didn't have to go. I just said that he knew how I felt about K. His response floored me - H said, "Well that has nothing to do with him being my friend." The only response I could come up with was, "Yeah, I guess you're right." I said that I was going to get the kids and head home and H said he would be seeing me shortly. I get home and guess what - no H!!! Not really surprised; what will surprise me is if he's home before midnight.

I don't even know what to say to him anymore. It's like it goes in one ear and out the other and doesn't connect anywhere in between.

I don't know if anyone can offer any advice, but thanks for listening. Hee, hee I'll also take any advice anyone has to offer.