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I saw you tonight lurking on the boards.
Got me thinking, "how are you?"
I hope you are well and "things" are processing well.
Let us know you are O.K.
Z.
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Hello Zebrababy,
I'm doing well, thanks for asking about me.
I haven't been on the board much at all these days as I've been traveling for work and busy at home with family. We started mc recently, again. We have been doing pretty well but H has gotten angry at me very recently because of a particularly sensitive revelation in a session, which in turn has caused some old triggers in me to surface but I'm working them through the right way this time.
How are you doing? I read a post of yours a while back, the time when you were in church and your mind went into overdrive, and it really hit home that no matter who we are or what road we're on, when we are hurt this deeply, the pain is engraved into our spirits. I am searching like all of us, to find out how to get past it.
wishing you all well,
CM
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CM,
glad to hear you are doing Okay too.
You are so right. Pain and trauma can sear so deep that sometimes it's impossible to escape.
I guess the trick is dealing with it when it surfaces and using it to your advantage. That's what I work on when it rears its ugly head.
Money has been tight in my camp. Our only "real" arguement in months was over cash flow. It lasted an afternoon and we were on the phone "making up". I think both of us don't ever want to "go there" again. We want to be right to each other and sleep peacefully.
I guess that's a positive side effect from the trauma.
I'll be keeping you in my prayers,
Z.
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CMiranda,
I have been thinking about you lately also. I am glad to hear that you are OK.
MJ
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