I guess the pregnancy hormones are getting to me as this is a HUGE trigger month for me.

I know things will pass...but darn those triggers!!!!! ARRRRRGGGGHHHHHH!!!!

Twiisty

I am sorry that this month is such a big trigger for you.
As you know that its a bit of a trigger for me as well.

Our wedding anniversary is this month. Its the Nov 13th, 9 yrs this year!, as I know YOU already know.

If you figure from the date that Lil Bit was due, the conception date would be Nov 9th... and that was just 4 days before our Anniversary!

I wanted to let you know that you are not alone... I am with ya, my twiisted sister!
We will get through this!

Hugs and Prayers!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Stacia_Lee:
[QB]I am sorry that this month is such a big trigger for you.
As you know that its a bit of a trigger for me as well.

Our wedding anniversary is this month. Its the Nov 13th, 9 yrs this year!, as I know YOU already know.

If you figure from the date that Lil Bit was due, the conception date would be Nov 9th... and that was just 4 days before our Anniversary!
QB]</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Our Anniversary is Nov. 13 as well! I did not realize that its coming up so quickly. I pray it goes better than last year. Last year for our anniversary, we went to Vegas. Thats when he told me he did not love me anymore for the first time. Little did I know then he was sleeping with another W! A lot has happened in my life since then, but through it all we are still together, at least for now! God is good! Keep the faith.

Stacia...
It's ironic that my OC was born a day before your anniversary and yours was born on Mr."T"'s and my anniversary...strange...strange...strange....

Thanks for the encouragement...I'm still a little miffed at Mr."T" right now but trying to "get over it". I really want to send a letter to the Ex-ow congratulating her for her marriage and how she must be proud of herself to upset a marriage and let four children at my house sit in the dark, and go without a phone for three days because a CS payment obligation has to come first. We just now caught up on our mortgage and money is really tight. Luckily I am making Christmas gifts this year to cut costs. (cross stitching ornaments out the the stash I've collected over the years).

Hope to catch you later, Stace...need to chat to ya...

Hugs,
Twiisty

We are linked...
Only God knows why we were brought together through such circumstances, but I believe that we are here in this place to help each other and others that are going down this same road.
I will try to give you a buzz tomorrow.

LoAm,
I know what you mean about your anniversary sneaking up on you. I actually just remembered that it was coming up only a few days ago.
I mentioned it to H and he looked at me in shock, "All ready?"
H had been reading about a wrestler, he is a big fan, that is separated from his wife of 4 yrs. Their anniversary is coming up as well.
I mentioned to H, "How would you feel if we had to go through our Anniversary like that?"
His response? "I don't think I could go through an Anniversary without you."

I tell ya, some days he just stuns me.
But it shows me that our recovery is moving ahead.

Hugs to both of you!!!

What is it about THIS time of year? My first trigger day is October 24 & 25. Then we have October 31, Nov 1 and 2, followed by November 13, 14 and 15, right on it's heals.

Then the biggie....November 25 through 29. I HATE that period of time worse than any others and can barely stand to get through it. But, I do.

Right after that is December 10 through 15, followed by December 23 through 31. Oh yeah, let's not forget about January 13 through the 17th.

Then we are done. The trigger days are over and normalcy returns...somewhat. That's the GOOD news. The bad news is that this is only November 2nd! I still have 2 1/2 months to go. hahaha

Oh well, this too shall pass.

Catnip =^^=

Catnip and Stace,

Tell ya what...in time for next year, we should plan on going on a cruise or something or do something...meet somewhere in the middle of where we all are and have a "let's get over it" kind of thing...At least it's fun to think about....spending our husband's non-existent money....eating and not gaining a pound...I get to leave my five kids with Mr."T"...that's punishment in itself to him....for a WHOLE week or dare I say it???? MORE!!!!!

Who needs facials etc...since we are already beautiful...of course, I'll have to get my mustache and goatee waxed...(right Z??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> )
J/K...I'll never tell if I need that done or not...roflol...

We could dance the night away...(to quote one of the Mavericks songs...I love the Mavericks...) and just have fun....

Ah well...what else would we do...help me out ladies....

Hugs,
Twiisty <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Hello,
Wow what is it about this time of year. My conception date with my son is coming and when I found out right before Thanksgiving and two days later H met OW through a friend and H told her that I was pregnant and that we were having problems why could she not live him alone?

Then their is Christmas and New Years when they went out when I was away at my mom supposely just has friends and the next they met Jan.24 as well as Jan. 26, 27 and then my H started thinking straight and then a month later she told him she was pregnant.

I just need to get through these months and probably when I do we will get CS papers. As of yet I still have a little hope that OC is not his.

Dawn