I found out about my H A on 11/29/01. I am really nervous becase the 1 yr mark is rapidly approaching. How did your 1 yr D- day go? help!

Dear Jordy...

This is my 'anniversary' time, too, so I completely understand. In fact, it was probably 11-29-98 that XOW in my life conceived OC. It is a tough time for me, too, from mid-Ocotber until mid-January.

I'll pray for you...please pray for me. D-day's and remembering those certain times of year of the affair is always difficult, but we always get through it and each year the pain subsides a little more. I remember I got through the second anniversary not even thinking about it until later because I was caught up in something else and too busy to wallow. I did manage to squeeze in a pity fest once the dust settled. I think these times are kind of healthy at first, kind of catharctic in some ways because it gives us an opportunity to rid some more of the residule pain we are still harboring.

Some day it will be no big deal....

God bless and comfort you, Jordy...

Love

Catnip =^^=

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