Hi everyone!! long time no post (on my part that is!!) I just wanted to give you all an update... it turns out the ow WAS NOT PREGNANT!!!! YIPPEEEE,YAHOOOO, HURRRRAY!!!! she was lying after all....just trying to cause trouble because my H wouldnt have any contact with her. for the last 3 weeks or more all has been quiet, the whole town basically has given her shots of nasty comments for the disgusting things she was pulling and trouble she tried to cause!!! in fact she has given herself such a bad reputation that im sure she wont live here much longer ( I can hope anyhow ) things have settled down between the H and myself and we are getting into a comfortable routine once again, family life it great, kids are happy and so am I!!!!! no more tears....Thank you all for listening in my time of grief (ya know who you are) and for all your supportive advice every step of the way. by the way happy belated new year to everyone, I hope it is filled with happiness and prosperity to you all!!!! Thank you all again!!!!!

honeyb,

i'm so happy for you and your family! how did you find out that she wasn't pregnant? i'm not familiar with your story but i'm interested because the 'ow' in our case was supposedly due yesterday. we haven't heard anything from her since we asked her in may to provide us with some proof that she was pregnant and she told us we would get it from her attorney after the birth. we hope that she was also lying just to cause trouble, but unless my h gets served with a paternity suit i guess we won't really ever know. we don't live in the same city anymore.

Hi steph!, well she had told my H during the 2 week A that she was "fixed" and claimed they would not have to use protection for that reason, after the A ended and he refused contact with her, and believe me she tried everything phone calls, go betweens, drive bys, even comeing to our business on pretense of having repairs done to her car, we promptly threw her out!!! anyhow long story short when he wouldnt give her the time of day she told mutual freinds she was pregnant, I flipped out of course and he kept saying she is lying, but my thoughs were what if she is not?? she may have lied about being fixed.... anyhow after the **** hit the fan mutual freinds got ahold of her and jacked her up about it and she bitterly admited just wanting to try and split us up, thought he would come running to her!!! what a fool she was. So that is how we found out she was not, I would suggest in your case if you know anyone she happens to know mabey talk to them, pregnancy isnt something you can hide for very long, and hopefully she is doing the same as ours was just trying to cause trouble in your lives!!!! hang in there I know exactly how you feel and believe me it isnt easy I actually thought of committing a felony!!!lol!!! so keep you chin up!!! and talk to every one you can who may know her at least it might give you peace of mine <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> all the best to you both, its a long hard road but worth it.....

Hey Honey
I'm so happy for you, here's is a big ((((((hug)))))) for you! congradulations I'm happy for you.

honey33 so sorry I'm late to tell you that I'm so glad you don't have to be put through the delays of healing your marriage due to another woman having your H's child.
love,
Debi

Thank you Malc & Gemini !!! I am happy for me too...the road ahead after a betrayal is still hard but not as hard as it could have been...I thank god everyday for that!!! Luv ya and hope all is well with both of you..Honey