I am sorry my last few posts have not been that great. I want to thank everyone for their answers and support. To give an update on my life. I found out on sunday night i had lost a 19 year old friend in a car crash. her viewing is tonight. (thursday) we got the call this morning that ow went into labor. just my luck the same day as the veiwing. what else can go wrong. H wants to go to viewing with me but felt he needed to be there for delivery. I found out about ten min. ago baby was born. 6lb 12oz and 19 inches. he is going to be meeting me at the viewing. thank God. I am frustrated bc he tells me he does not want to leave but has not said to her the he is definatly staying. We are planning to see a mc next week. the other issue i am having is that ow parents (she is 22) does not know h is married to me. they do not know that thier daughter is an ow. i think they have a right to know. it this wrong? please pray i make it through this mess and the funneral without loosing my sanity. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> thanks in advance
Jen

jen,
I'm so sorry you're going through all this at the same time! What devastation.

I'm glad your H was not at the birth. That is VERY unnecessary. I hope your H gets off his fence soon!!!

I agree that OW's parents ought to know that OC's father is married, but I don't know about getting involved in telling them...

I hope you have a good counselor!

I'm so sorry for the painful loss of your friend.

God be with you,
J