I just want to say welcome to you both to this board! I have been "absent" for the past 3 months, and am just now getting caught up on everything that's happened while I was gone! I am usually one of the first to welcome those in our shoes(so to speak), as I have walked that mile, and am still living to tell the tale! I know that Amy still reads and posts, but I have only seen the one post by Three Strikes, and was wondering if you were still around? If you are, how are you doing?

As for Amy(I hope it's ok to call you that, as that's how you sign), I wanted to let you know that there was another of us out there who has been where you are! I know the feelings of guilt and shame, and the question of who you tell and who you don't! I've even had that choice taken from me by my MIL!

I just wanted you both to know that there are other's out there, who've survived, and are living proof that it can work out!

If you would like my email to chat privately, just let me know, I don't mind posting if I know it will help someone!

Again, welcome to the boards(even if I'm a little late in saying it <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> )

Tigger