I have read most of this site, but just got around to this one - the article is so on target - it's erie. <P>This could have been written about my husbands childhood and parents. I wish they could only know what they did to him as a child. <P>Unfortunately, I still think he is living as that child at 42. All of the behavours described, he has shown in this last episode and our marriage. <P>Unfortunately, I can't help him this time - he needs more help then I can give.