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I don't think I can do this anymore. Trying to work on this marriage that is. How can I save this marriage all by myself? H is telling lies left and rightand thinks he can by my love with money. I found another cell phone tonight hidden in the trunk of MY car. Yes I'm angry but not as angry as I've been in the past. I think I'm finally beginning to accept reality. H is not going to change anytime soon. I've yet to say anything to him about the phone. I ask when did he last speak to OW and he claimed he has not. I asked when did she call him last and he claimed he had not heard from her. Little did he know I had all the evidence in my purse. Im trying very hard not to bring the subject up and I'm trying hard not to show any anger knowing he's decievin me once again. I'm sure he'll realize that I found the phone the next time he goes to use it. I want to see just how he handles the situation.
I've noticed at times that H would have an attitude when there really was nothing wrong with us. Could it be that OW made him angry during of their phone conversations? I'm sick and tired of this person effecting our lives and I'm pissed because H is feeding fuel into the fire.
I keep asking myself when is enough enough? God knows I've been through hell and back with this man. And I'v made an honest effort to make this work. Please someone give me some advice.
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Robbed,
I wish that I had some AWSOME advice for you, but all I can offer right now is support and hugs!
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Robbed}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
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Thanks Tigger Hugs help a great deal. You see my mother is deceased, I don't have any sisters one brother and very very few friends. This is truely a lonely place to be. Again thank you so much for the hug.
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I think I can relate to you. I have been asking my husband lately if OW has contacted him and he states she has not. Last altercation me and her had by email I called her a surrogate mother and haven't heard from her since. Be strong and pray for the answers you are looking for. My relationship is a little different because, H is really fighting hard to save our marriage I have so much resentment in me that I am not allowing him to support me all the time. Most of the time I despise him and the other times I love him. God bless you! You will know when/if you are strong enough to walk away.
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