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#820396 03/28/03 04:14 PM
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<small>[ March 29, 2003, 08:07 AM: Message edited by: snackelfratzel ]</small>

#820397 03/28/03 05:04 PM
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frankly since you dont know and your husband has admitted nothing to you, I think you should leave her marriage abd her alone and move on with your life..

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Bring it up with your husbnad, and encourage honesty (by not lovebusting). Then, use the Policy of Joint Agreement to decide what (or what not) to do.

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I have to say more

You can not just on assumption and imagination assume a child is your husbands and tell this womans family and hurt her , her husband and all the children involved including your own husband and children.

If and it seems a very big IF your husband fathered a child. It is apparent that this child is cared for and loved and does not have a place in your life. Let them be, why drag up this mess into your life and your childrens on a guess.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> Dont you realise the damge this can cause to all of you ? and what of that two year old that you dont know about, I am sorry I fail to see how you would be helping any one.


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